Right now i am in seatte visiting my younger brothers and sisters and i have a 20 year young sister... she has a boyfriend, a job, and seems so happy. I am three months pregnant, i've accepted this as a single mom, i have my career job, i'm 22, going on 23 soon, i have my own place so my life is very set...
I was looking through my sister's phone and by mistake came across a video that she made with her boyfriend, i think you all can get an idea of what kind, i didn't continue watching cause of course i don't want to see that.
Right now for some reason I am feeling a little down and my mind is just going to the fact that yes i've had a lot of fun partying, dating, drinking and whatnot but i will not be able to do things that she does b/c obviously i'm pregnant and my life is going to take a drastic change.
I know my life isn't over b/c of my baby but i guess i'm missing already the things that i can't do and seeing her do it just reminds me....What do you guys think?
2007-07-18 12:42:50 · 4 answers · asked by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think once you look into your babies eyes you will realize your life is just beginning and the real fulfillment is just starting. All that partying adds up to what?
Trust me when I say the path your taking is has way more depth & meaning to it than constantly entertaining oneself.
2007-07-18 12:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, dont be sad! Its not worth it. Be happy! You are about to have a baby.
I know it is hard being a single mom and all, but you have to realize that as you grow older, times change and you mature and life brings responsibilities to everyone.
You are still young and so you shouldnt envy her. Just focus on your baby and your life- not other peoples! We always think the grass is always greener, but you really dont know until you experience it in their shoes.
Partying and drinking are things that are really a waste of time for anyone- trust me, been there done that and it was really not all it is cracked up to be.
Besides once your baby gets older you still can go out and have fun. Like they say life begins at 40!
2007-07-18 14:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by 35yrfoolinlovewitha25yrold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 23:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by frasier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones. Parenting changes everything, that's why you shouldn't do it until you are past the selfish stage of your life. If you aren't, put that baby up for adoption and give him a change with a parent who has.
2007-07-18 12:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋