How do I get women?

Question

I am very lonely (which is an understatement). I am a virgin, and I doubt that I've ever had a real girlfriend. I'm a 20 year old college student, who likes plus size women, has never had a job, doesn't have any extracurricular activities, has no car, have very few female friends, if any, and shares an apartment with my sister. I'm quite inexperienced in dating. These things are wrecking my confidence. How do I get and keep women?

Answer 1

relax, we all bloom in different seasons of our lives. one step at a time. start going for walks, get out more. find a part time job with people.
Read loving smart by Dr. Phil awesome book will help you a lot did me.
Also boundaries in dating by John macloud.
You seem sweet sensitve and a little insecure.confidence will come..........
Go to a church of choice and get involved with a singles group. they do stuff as a group. they are awsome and usually there is a whole lot more of females than guys.excellent for your confidence, dont stand on the outside looking in,,,,, jump in there and live.
You would have a better chance of meeting someone decent there................ The right one will click so dont panic. enjoy the journey and dont compare yourself to anyone eles.
get out live and have some fun,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,God bless
get a makeover,,,,,,hmmm you are gona have so much fun.... dare to dance............ dont let having no car stop you. walk make friends with people with cars. bus. save for a car........
The right female would delighted to drive you............
be sweet sensitive and romantic and faithful.
but you got to get out and mingle. they are not going to cut a whole in the ceiling and surprise you.

Answer 2

I think you should just concentrate on learning how to be social with people first. Maybe your sister could help or just try to listen when other people are around and get used to how people relate to each other. Don't worry about getting a girlfriend, that will happen eventually if you just work on building your self-esteem and maybe pick up some extracurricular activities. A job would be a good start, just a part time one with little skill level or thought needed so the pressure is less. Good luck

Answer 3

First of all, get a job. Even if you're in college, no woman wants to pay your way on everything. I'm not saying you have to spend every penny on a woman, but being able to manage money is a plus no matter what the job. And unless you live in a metropolitan area, you might want to get a car. No woman want to drive their man around everywhere or have to wait while he figures out transportation. Then, find some sort of extracurricular activity you like. It will help you to become a more well rounded person, and you might find a woman interested in the same things that you could date.

Answer 4

The biggest thing is get out and get active, join a few organizations around campus. When I was in college i joined the campus chaper of habitat for humanity, and actually made a fried that I still talk to now almost 3 years later. When you get involved just be yourself, don't be afraid to walk up to someone and talk to them. Look at it this way, what is the worst that they can do...walk away. So get out there, have some fun, talk to people, socialize. Get an apartment of your own. Good luck :-)

Answer 5

First, get out and join some extracurriculars and do things around your college.

Get better at making small talk (with EVERYbody, not just potential mates), and then improve that by making people you talk to smile & laugh.

Find someone who's good with women and bribe them to work with you.

Work on your game. There are whole communities online dedicated to helping guys get better at picking up women.

Read "The Mystery Method" by Mystery.
www.venusianarts.com
www.venusianarts.com/forum

Also look up David DeAngelo.

Answer 6

I'm sorry to say this but you sound boring and like a geek. Women want guys who are romantic, outgoing and fun. Sorry again, women want men who've at least had some experience and pleasure. Men who are virgins have no experience and don't want it. You need to get out of your shell or wherever you hide and meet new people. The kind of girl you're looking for is not anywhere to be found in this world. Women today are fun, have tons of friends, love activities and are outgoing, not boring. Also, women today are educated, have jobs and drive cars. Don't forget, not many of us, women, are virgins. So you might want to recheck your list.

Good luck in the future finding a suitable partner

Answer 7

get off the couch. get a part time job somewhere ( you might meet someone at work) if not it will raise your self confidence. do you think that with these credentials that you're going to get a woman and keep her too? honey you have a lot to learn. 20 and a virgin not a big deal, but 40 and a virgin (cant you hear the sirens? ) lol....sorry...Im not laughing at you..but you need to get out of the doldrums ( the blues) and get yourself fixed.....and the only way to do that is by getting off the freaking couch. Now get your butt in gear and get out there......go to the YMCA..work out, if you dont want or need to work volunteer your time somewhere..girls will gravitate to a confident and ambitious guy.....you'll have to bat them off once you get that going for you....good luck

Answer 8

You gotta improve your self image and self confidence, cuz right now you're whining... and it's not attractive. You also sound boring, sorry, but it's true. No job, no hobbies, no friends. WHY would a women be interested in what you just described?
Get out of your apartment, get a part time job, go out and get involved in something and see who you meet.

Answer 9

get out more!!!

Take dance classes (ballroom,latin,swing)
or something cool like that.

If u dont like activities then there is a very VERY low chance you can ever meet someone. This biggest thing girls like is someone who isnt boring or isnt extremely shy (like a wuss kind of shy) Girls like people with personality and can make them laugh.
TRY TRY TRY to get into activities. You make tons of friends and meet tons of new people. And everything branches off from that,
Get a job..even getting a job you will meet people obviously.

Seriously....try to get out more and improve your social skills.

good luck =]

Answer 10

You need to get a job...any job preferably one that does not interfere with your studies.

Get a nice suit, since you will need one to get a job. Girls like suits. Take a shower because you need to be presentable to get a job.

Once you get hired...go to work. Women like men who are gainfully employed, they like hearing about how successful you are at work.

Successful men dress well and have good jobs. That's how they can get and keep a woman in their lives.

Good luck.