I love her she loves me.....but she says she does'nt love me enough whatever that means!!!!
2007-07-18 12:36:50 · 13 answers · asked by wehate1966 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bloody hell jorge thats some bloody answer!!!!
2007-07-18 13:02:02 · update #1
Show her you truly mean it by taking her back to where you had your first date or first kiss. Bringing back great memories always softens us up! Plus, take it a step further by reminding her of all the other wonderful times you've had and bring along some mementos or pictures. Don't focus on any of the negatives, that's what she'll probably be doing. It'll be your job to turn her thoughts the other way.
Telling her you've been absolutely miserable w/o her always helps, too! Good luck!
2007-07-18 12:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by HoPeFuL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you asked about finding a good woman to marry if you are just out of this relationship? Don't leap into a new relationship too soon, not until you have resolved your feelings about this one, it won't be fair to your new girlfriend to go out with her on the rebound.
By the way, when she says she doesn't love you enough, she means she loves you, but is not 'in love' with you. Perhaps you need to discuss this with her a little more before finally moving on.
Look after yourself.
2007-07-19 10:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Heralda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, no games, no bulls**t, no lies. Be honest, share your feelings with her and start the lines of communication. Perhaps she is scared to commit, perhaps she has issues that she does not want to share, there could be a plethora of reasons as to why she says she does not love you enough.
That said, there is only so much emotional outlay you can do as you need to protect your own heart so get some conversation started and see what unfolds.
I wish the both of you the very best!
2007-07-18 12:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by LiverGirl98 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your concern comes up so frequently, perhaps not in the same wording. However, it is very similar to what I see so much on this system. Try to undersand that when it comes to matters of this type, no one except you and God know what is in your heart. We may never really know nor understand what is in the heart of anyone else in our lives. Such feeling in our heart is perhaps the most complicated of all that we humans have to deal with. I suggest start within you. What is most important in this case is what you feel and not so much what is in her heart. She may say one thing but does something totatly different from how she really feels for you. As far as you should be concerned is that if you love her, never regret how you feel for her or for that matter anyone, especially when they have touched your heart and it is clear that she has done that to you and you to her. Perhaps she is also thinking the same you are thinking only she may be a bit confused. It happens to all of us and not just once but several times during the course of any similar relationship. Also she may be behaving and often believing that you two have a slim to none chance of being together for the long ride. In this case, I suggest follow your heart. Stay in touch with her, talk to her and tell her how you feel. Once in a while surprise her with a small gift, and it does not have to be expensive but rather a token to let her know that she is on your mind. In the morning, once in a while txt him "good morning" and wish her a nice day. At night once in a while txt her good night and wish her well. Again, it is clear that she is in your heart and while you may tell yourself that she is fading away, you may even consider at times to try to forget her, yet your heart won't listen. If that is the case then you love her more than you know. If she loves you she will answer you. An honest sincere good person does not just look for physical, smiles, money in a person. A good trusting, caring person wants and desires more than materialistic things and looks. Such a person seeks something deeper than the heart of another person. He or she searches for the other person's soul. I am also a man and believe me, I undertstand how you feel. However, don't quit on her and yourself, let her know that you love her and not just by telling her but most of all by doing things, little things that show her that you care about her and that she is on your mind. Never regret love and purposely try to wipe it away. Yes it hurts so much sometimes but you also know it is the greatest feeling you can possibly have. May God bless you and her regardless of your destiny. Express your love for her until she clearly lets you know she has another. Until that time, don't stop. True love will test your patience. In time, one of two things sure to happen, she will come to you or you will find someone who trly will appreciate you for who you are, someone very capable of loving and accepting the love that you deserve. God is with you when you are feeling so hurt. I know the feeling such that you feel it would be less painful if someone ripped your heart from your chest. Believe me, God is with you and he will not let you down. God is with those who truly know how to love and have the greatest of patience. I hope that this helped you to at least think differently more so about what you feel than what she may feel.
2007-07-18 12:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by jorge e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude before you do anything you have to 1. Find out if she has moved on and found someone else and 2. Ask yourself if you really want her back.....but from the looks of it, it seems that she's trying to move on and forget about you and you should do the same just go and find someone else
2007-07-18 12:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by ZACH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice. Say sorry. She might ask why. That'll start a small conversation. Try to flirt. but make sure she barely notices that u did. If she gets mad at u, act VERY sad, sniffle, stiffle crying. Then she might feel bad for u. Then guess what? U'll probly get her back.
2007-07-18 12:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Betsey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait a while... my ex did and he gave me some time for myself. He tried datting other girls and i tried dating other guys and we finally just figured out we couldn't be apart any longer. So here we are, 2years later, with regrets that this didn't happen sooner. Just don't lose contact with her or she WILL forget you...
2007-07-18 12:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Lil love lady ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
act sweet and caring at first then like the next month or two which ever you feel confident and you feel that she like s you, ask her out to places like to eat the cinema etc etc....HOPE THIS WORKS OUT 4 U =D
2007-07-20 07:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she tells you she doesn't love you enough...that means she doesn't love you like that anymore...move on!
2007-07-18 12:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't love you enough to be married 2 you.... that's what it means. move on my fiend your just gonna get hurt again.
2007-07-18 12:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋