I love my boyfriend but I feel weird being around him and I don't know what to do now every time he asks me to the movies I have to make up and excuse I really love him he even ask's me what's wrong and I fell like tellin himbut then I dont what should I do?
2007-07-18 12:32:03 · 11 answers · asked by nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can you be a bit more specific? What does he do or say that makes you feel weird? Are you sure you are in love?
2007-07-18 12:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by hansblix222 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you need to be honest with your boyfriend as he already suspects something is not quite right. As part of your explanation, tell him you are unsure what this weird feeling is all about, and you need some space to figure out what is going on within you. Tell him you cannot give him a definitive but at least if he is aware of what is going on with you, there will be more room for understanding from him and you will not feel pressure to behave in a certain way.
2007-07-18 19:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by LiverGirl98 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you first need to figure out WHY you are feeling this way. Are you just nervous? If so, about what? Once you figure it out, either talk to him about it or decide if he is or isn't the right guy for you. You should be able to be comfortable with the people you love :)
2007-07-18 19:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by ashmarielee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel weird about being with him????? There has to be a reason, whether you love another person or he says weird things to you... what's the reason so we can give you better advice????
2007-07-18 19:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Going to NY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel. A relationship goes nowhere if the two people aren't completely honest. And maybe you should ask yourself if this is a relationship that you really want to be in
2007-07-18 19:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Shady Lane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your boyfriend is paying for the movies, go out-get some free food and entertainment. weird, so start remembering stuff, like how you guys met.
2007-07-18 19:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by bullet b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up a little bit just to begin with. I don't mean to be rude but you're probably really making him miserable because of your 'confusion', I had a woman do that to me and it was miserable and now I hate her for her stupid selfish attitude about our relationship
2007-07-18 19:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by eldude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have just started dating this guy. If you feel weird, leave. Sometimes your first instinct is telling you something.
Go with your instict.
2007-07-18 19:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by Lighthouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not getting what you mean about weird around him?? are u embarrassed to be around him,is he extremely ugly???if you feel weird around him and you dont like that feeling then break up with him.
2007-07-18 19:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by marie e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do some soulsearching and find ou what the problem is. it might just be some kind of internal fear you have that causes yuo to be like that towards him.
2007-07-18 19:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by Carmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋