So, what you can do is go to the website of the charity you'd like to donate to, and make the donation. They will provide you with a receipt.
Put the receipt in a card, and bring it to the shower. That way, you can send your good wishes, and show the bride that you have made the donation, per her request.
2007-07-18 10:57:03
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answered by abfabmom1 7
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I think a handmade gift is a lot more thoughtful.
Personally I would not donate to a charity. Many of them are extremely political. One had Planned Parenthood and people I know at the wedding were having fertility problems. This has nothing to do with a wedding.
Guests are NOT required to bring gifts. You aren't FORCED to contribute to a trip or give money.
Give a gift from the heart. My daughter would have loved a framed print from an artist that attended her wedding. They purchased a lovely gift off the registry because they thought giving something she made was tacky.......A framed print retails for $400.
2007-07-19 07:40:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Since you are an artist perhaps you can paint a picture of the couple or of a place that is special to them. (you didn't mention what medium you work in) Attach the charity card to that.
As far as the donations, they are probably planning on using the amount donated to get a tax refund later on so it would still help them out.
I would just give cash. They want money towards the honeymoon but those registry things are a rip off so I would give honeymoon money directly to the couple.
2007-07-18 11:07:03
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answered by pspoptart 6
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I don't think that anonymous donations would be a good idea. If I'm giving someone a gift, I'd like for them to know what I got them. How would you write thank you notes if gifts were given anonymously? All you have to do is not register anywhere and people will give you money and gift cards. You may get a few "things" but don't stress over it. Most of the time people bring boxed gifts to bridal showers and bring money to the actual wedding.
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answered by antionette 3
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Why don't you purchase an item (or items) that they can use on their honeymoon along with the charitable donation.
For example . .
Lingerie
A pretty nightgown
His and her travel cosmetic bags
His and her good quality sunglasses
Beach towels
Gift certificate for a new bathing suit
Gift certificate for photo services
Travel bag
Two good new books to read
Passport cover
Luggage ID tags
Electrical system converter kit
And . . A gift certificate for Sunday Brunch for the three of you (you can talk about the wedding, the honeymoon, the gifts, the wedding guests, and all the wedding day activities)
Answered by: A Certified wedding specialist / A Professional bridal consultant / A Wedding ceremony officiant
2007-07-18 11:55:40
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answered by Avis B 6
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I dont believe a honeymoon registry is tacky at all. It is a great way for a young couple to get a honeymoon when the budget is limited.
And what a wonderful idea, donating to charities. This is such a selfless request and so unusual. A breath of fresh air after reading some of the me me me attitudes on here.
By all means tho, make them a beautiful gift. If you are an artist, I am sure it will be lovely and probably end up being one of the most memorable gifts they have.
2007-07-18 10:58:13
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answered by bluegirl6 6
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YES-make them something and donate to a charity as well.
Pick a charity off of the list they provided, and they will be happy. Even a young couple that needs things are apt to want donations to charity-they are very mature and know money can do such good going to charities.
2007-07-19 00:01:11
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answered by Learning is fun! 4
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For the shower, respect their wishes. Give a donation to charity and put a note in a card so you won't go empty handed. You can always give them something you made for a housewarming gift.
2007-07-18 10:58:21
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answered by Truth is elusive 7
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to be honest...if I was in your situation I would just make them something. I dont agree with honeymoon registry as my husband and I couldnt afford a honeymoon so I'm not about to send some other couple on theirs. and if I'm going to donate to charity its going to be because I want to, not because a couple says to on an invite. I would make them a nice gift and that should be enough.
2007-07-18 10:58:17
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answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7
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I don't know, it sounds to me like they would like you to donate to charity what you would have otherwise spent on the gift. You can bring flowers and chocolates to the shower, this way you won't be coming empty-handed.
2007-07-18 11:44:34
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answered by Anonymous
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