well my boyfriend came to my house today in the morning then we went out of my house and he ask me if i wanted to go to his house so i said yes so i went to his house but my aunt stared to call his cell phone because she wanted to talk to me she call his cell phone like25 times she also called his brother and told him that she neede to talk to my boyfriend my boyfriend got mad and he told me that he was tired that every time we are together i always someone from my family has to call me because they want to talk to me even if is not an emergency they always call so he got mad today and ask me to decide between him and my aunt . i know that he had many rasons to get mad because his my boyfriend and he wants to spent time with me because we dont see each other all the time
2007-07-18 10:43:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
what I do (even though its not right) I turn my phone on silent and turn his on silent so there's no interruptions..
Or just Tell your family that their canstant calling annoys you and him and is causing problems in your relationship. Ask them to please cut it down to emergencies only.
I know how annoying it is to be bothered when you rarely get to se him but theyre probably making sure that nothing too sexual is going on while your alone together. Its kinda hard to get in the mood when theres a phone call every 10 seconds
2007-07-18 10:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to choose between you and your aunt? ha ha ha, kick him to the curb. Everybody's got a crazy annoying family and he can't expect to leave yours behind because it is a minor inconvenience to him. If she called his phone so much you should have just answered it and put an end to it. Tell your aunt politely not to call him unless it's an emergency and to leave his brother out of it.
2007-07-18 17:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men just like us have the need to feel like they are number one in our lives. The problem comes in when we don't communicate a problem until its too late. Then we are to a point that we make mistakes because we are tired of a problem and angry for the wrong reasons so we say and do things we shouldn't. Try to talk it out make a concession for him and he should be willing to respect you and your family as well.
2007-07-18 17:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lotus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why do they feel the need to call him all the time??? Is he some kind of specialist jack-of-all-trades or something??? If he doesn't like them calling so much then he should tell them, or put his phone on silent so he doesn't hear the ringing. . .and everyone else who is helping her to get in touch with him need to be told to stop calling for her too!!!
2007-07-18 17:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Lips 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you put your cell on vibrate when you're with your bf? Then just return the calls when you're alone.
2007-07-18 17:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chose Family you have them for a lifetime.
2007-07-18 17:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little over protective over ou arent they...
well Family always comes first (almost always) but its wrong that they call you all the tiem youre with him.. and come on! she called TWENTY FIVE tiems! :| talking about stalking!!.. && she called HIS BROTHER!! :| ...
thats already like over board.. :S
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2007-07-18 17:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by berrylilants 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋