my bf flirts with me a lot. and i ususally dont, he will like put his arms around me and stuff. but i dont really do anything back. he was discussing with me that we can makeout anytime we want. im caucasion and hes black and hes one of those bad types. should it be on the couch? bed? where? and what should i say or do in order for him to get the idea i want to makeout with him????? please help
2007-07-18 10:29:56 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have to SAY anything. Just decide that you're going to make out with him and take charge. Flirt with him some, give him a sexy smile and maybe lick your lips. Then, kiss him. If you really want to get the point across, try putting your hand on the back of his head and pulling him close to you. On the couch is probably best, so that you can somewhat surprise him.
He'll probably really like the fact that you took charge of making out, and be completely turned on.
2007-07-18 10:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah dont discuss it. just engage in it. just be yourself. do what feels right. i would makeout on the bed right now cause it seems like youre a beginner at this, i would start on the couch. im sure hes more experienced then you, just judging by the way you described him, so im sure he will be pleased with whatever you do.
2007-07-18 10:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jackeeeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to rush into it, from what you are saying, it seems that you two are just starting a relationship, find out from him what he wants to do, if you are in aggrement with him then the rest is up to both of you. It is then that you decide whether you want it on the couch, the bed, in the kitchen: both of you should make that decision ok, let me know whats the outcome ok.
2007-07-18 10:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by tan c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say choose for it. You for sure like him and he's flirting with you. while you're traumatic, don't be overwhelmed if he's a participant. in simple terms choose for it and spot what style of man or woman he's. then you definitely could additionally make up your strategies from there. Thats truthfully quite lovable whilst he stole your jacket and stuff. He maximum probable needs a woman who isn't afraid to do issues like making out.
2016-10-09 00:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by lumley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just turn his face toward you and lean in. He'll meet you halfway. And, it don't matter where you do it, girl. As long as the mood is right and you're not, like, in front of your parents or grandparents or something. Otherwise, just find a nice quiet place where you can get some gropey-gropey going and go to town.
2007-07-18 10:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mare Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he puts his arm around you snuggle in - when you both feel the time is right it will happen.
But keep it away from the bed - you don't want him to think you are asking for a lot quickly.
2007-07-18 10:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im black ok let me tell u sumthin wen a black man wants to make out he is goin 2 want 2 go further.but juss makeout with him .if u really like him
2007-07-18 10:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minte now hun what does him being black have to do with anything?....You should stop being so slutatious and take it a slow, and watch yourself b/c im sure he wouldnt appreciate the way you have characterized him!
2007-07-18 10:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by Pam Grier is an icon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it when it feels right, dont say anything just put your arms around him and lean in he'll get the message.
2007-07-18 10:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, 1rst of all, just because he is black, doesnt mean he's a bad type- I dont think it's fair that you link two and two together.
2nd of all) Kissing isnt that complicated, do it when you feel like it, if you want him to kiss you, tell him '' KISS ME''.
REEEElax!
2007-07-18 10:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by SolarSoul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋