seriously this section is about WEDDINGS not for you to put your personal opinions into everyone's private lives. if i dare ask a question about my wedding and mention that i'm having a baby in january there is always some rude person who thinks it is necessary to tell me that i should go and get married now or that basically if i don't we are being horrible parents to our baby!!! even other people questions that i have read, if someone mentions that they have a child then OMG they should already be married. haven't you ever stopped to think that, that is not really the question being asked. how would you like it if everytime you tried to ask an important question there was someone there bashing you. i'm not ashamed to have my baby and then get married, it is the right thing for us.
2007-07-18 10:18:20 · 27 answers · asked by Supermommy!!! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
my point is that people don't just answer the question asked, for instance if i were to ask what you all thought of two different colors being together and you thought it was ugly that is one thing but when i'm talking about how i need a list of things to be organized because i am so busy with work, school, being pregnant, and planning a wedding that means that what i'm looking for is a list of things i need to get done to make it to the day not some rude comment about how i should get married first and not even asnwer the question asked at all.
2007-07-19 06:12:53 · update #1
I agree 100%... There are some people on here that are just really harsh.. It is like we should live in a molded box that is perfect.. Um sorry no.. I like being me if you dont agree with something in my life.. To bad.. It is my life not yours..
Some people are so quick to judge.. Dont let it get to you.. Dont let it get you down or anything to that nature..
We are all different.. That is the way it was is and always will be.. No one is perfect.. Some people live thier lives thinking that they are.. But if only they let one thing slip out of thier closet of hush hushes..
So dont worry about it.. Dont stress.. Just know that you are the better person, b/c you dont have to be rude and hatefull to someone to make yourself feel better..
Congrats on your upcoming wedding and your upcoming baby..
2007-07-18 11:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I was just venting to my husband about this yesterday. It seems like people are so judgmental, and that's not really the point. If you can't answer the question, and just want to say something rude, keep it to yourself, but I guess they are doing it for the 2 points. It is like the old saying, if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. And heaven forbid you spell a word wrong, use incorrect grammar or punctuation, the grammar police come out in full force. hasn't anyone else just typed and forgot to spell-check or proofread? Oh well, I'll keep trying to be my non-judgmental self, remember everyone makes spelling and grammar mistakes, and give true honest answers, and maybe I'll get 10 points instead of just 2, or maybe I'll actually help someone find an answer to their question!
2007-07-19 06:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by LoveWithNoBoundaries 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to do the right thing for you and not care so much about what others think.
It's a public forum, and I think it's important to remember that everyone is on here . . . all generations. Each generation was raised differently and and so you will receive varied opinions. Just because you don't agree with some of the opinions does not mean those opinions are rude.
I've seen people be honest here, maybe blunt sometimes . . . but I don't think I have seen rude here yet.
2007-07-18 10:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Suz123 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Opinions are like A $ $ holes...everyone has one. Just brush it off and report the comment so it is removed. I know I get rude sometimes, but only if the person has asked an extremly retarded question or something that is posted like 10 times a day on here. Honestly, this is a new time and age...people do need to get a grip and grow up!! I mean it is your life after all. I had my daughter out of wedlock, hell I'm not even with her father anymore...married to a wonderful man and expecting a brother or sister for my little angle. lol, and I am 20 ontop of that...you had better believe I have gotten some rude comments but hey as long as I am happy and my family is as well...they can kiss me where the sun doesn't shine!! Congrats on the baby and the marriage, those are two big steps in life!!! Kudos for you!
2007-07-19 01:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
When you post your question in a forum like this, ppl can answer you how they please, if you don't like their answers, block the user so the next time you ask, they won't answer. Otherwise you just need to ignore the answers that say that. And specify what you said in the question, that you don't want child raising pointers, just wedding pointers. You know what's coming so you just got to prepare for the storm, and maybe don't mention that you're pregnant. This maybe a little blunt but it's the truth.. I do agree that some ppl are really rude on here though, i got a little pissy at someone the other day lol oops, then thought about it and it's like i don't know them, they aren't even worth my time or effort to get mad at
2007-07-18 10:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by happily married ( : 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I totally agree some people are so rude. Why do people feel the need to judge and give an answer that is irrelevant to the question asked.
Congratulations on the baby and the wedding, so what if you are not married before having a child, it is your life and your choice, my mother had me and my sister and never married my father, now they are seperated.
2007-07-18 10:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by **sparkleprincess** 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it's unfortunate that some people can't accept that there are other walks of life that differ from their own. some people just can't comprehend how a person can have a happy and stable life and raise a family without making marriage the first step. kudos to you for doing what's right for you, screw everyone else's opinions.
come on, everybody. this isn't the 50's anymore, getting pregnant is not a reason to immediately get married AT ALL. all that would accomplish is making the divorce rate even higher than it already is.
2007-07-18 10:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-11-09 20:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U do what's best for u...nothing wrong with asking for advice. If u don't like the advice given, just leave it b...no point in fuming over "high and mighty" opinions. Congrats on both ur up and coming big days
2007-07-18 10:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by mrsprincess07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say that you should be responsible to have a baby. That doesn't always mean that you have to be married. If you are ready, then have the baby. My bf was born without his parents being married, my friends are having a baby and they aren't married yet. It all has to do with responsibility.
2007-07-18 10:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋