OK so heres the situation my boyfriend and i live at home with my mom and so does my brother and his wife... well my boyfriend was joking around one night and created a fake account and e-mailed my sister in law joking about wanting to sleep with her and apparently he got too vulger and she is threatening to press charges, my boyfriend didnt realize that it was upsetting her that bad... he apoligized for it but still she called my mom today and told her that either he moves out or she does and well he cant afford to live on his own yet but im afraid that if he doesnt move out she will press charges and hes on probation right now so if she does that then he'll go to jail im so confused and dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-18 10:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by K M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dump the Dude
2007-07-18 10:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Your boyfriend sounds like he has no idea of what behavior is absolutely inappropriate within the family circle. And he's got a record and can't support himself. I'd give this a good hard think, in your shoes.
But I'm not in your shoes, so I think the options are to sit down as a whole family--mom, brother & sister-in-law, you & boyfriend--and talk about what it would take for everyone to forgive him completely. If you all determine that it's unforgivable for any of you (especially your sister-in-law), then he needs to speak to an attorney to determine what charges she could press and whether they'd stick in court, and if they did, whether it would violate his probation.
He should also be seeking a cheap room to rent and perhaps an additional part-time job, so he can live on his own.
Good luck with it. I think you're going to need it.
2007-07-18 10:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to your sister in law? Have you spoken to your brother in law?
And why would your boyfriend think that would be funny to send a vulgar email to your sister in law? I don't really see what's so funny about that. And then with his situation of being on probation, maybe your sister in law doesn't feel so safe in the house with him.
If you can't convince your mom, sister in law and/or brother that it was all a "joke" then it looks like your boyfriend has to leave the house, unless he wants to go to jail. Saying and doing certain things on the internet can be federal crimes (depending on the situation).
2007-07-18 10:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by True Hija De Oshun! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was my boyfriend I would be appalled at his actions, I think you have to evaluate your life, He's on probation He lives in your house free and clear, Whats wrong with you, don't you want better for yourself. Honey, take action , get rid of him and find your self someone who will respect you and take care of you the way you should be.
2007-07-18 10:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by lennie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a boyfriend, who's vulgar, he lives with you in your mom's house, and he's on probation.....mmmmmmmm.....it ain't the Waltons......why don't you rethink your priorities, dump him, if you're old enough move out on your own, and get a better life than you have now
2007-07-18 10:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by booger0819 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser and next time have a bit more self respect when chosing a b/f.
2007-07-18 10:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU should kick his butt out! Not only was he disrespecting your sister in law, he was disrespecting you. You don't need that kind of bullsh!t in your life.
2007-07-18 15:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Coop's Wife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm what a delightful family.
2007-07-18 10:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋