I think I'm a nice guy. I'm clean and well groomed. However I can never seem to get up the guts to even approach a girl let alone talk to them. I'm 28 and have had girlfriends in the past, but they would always approach me. What can I do????
2007-07-18 08:25:30 · 18 answers · asked by PK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go up and introduce yourself. Take it slow. No girl wants a fast guy(well most don't). Be friends, and it may progress from there.
2007-07-18 08:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by magix151 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to some of the smart azzez that don't know shiznit about getting the guts to talk to a female. The problem with you is that your still living in the past. here is how you do it. first you have to build up your confidence and hold it until the time is right for you to let loose. this way she see's that your an outgoing type of guy. second you have to land the meet. eye contact is effective and is more effective if you nod your head wassup or ask for a cigarrette, lighter, if you smoke but, never ask for money. if you don't smoke carry a lighter for a female who may need one. you have to make an open invitation for the both of you. A drink perhaps after eye contact? something. however, once this task is completed, show her your interests then, let loose your confidence. be funny, outgoing, and show her that you know how to have fun. after that, mellow down alittle and find out more about her. if she has someone, its ok, just be friends if her mate allows it. because of that, you will definitely see her again in the same place with her friends and can be introduced. if there is no boyfriend, good. find out what it is that she is looking for. and finally,if anything else. the rest is up to you.
2007-07-18 20:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by flyppride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're too shy to start conversation with a girl, then take some friends along to break the ice. Let them be your wingman. They could start a convo and then introduce you. It works! Then when your chatting with her just ask simple questions like where are you from or how many pets do you have? If your in a bar, offer to buy her a drink. Later say I had a great time and maybe we could get together again sometime and hang out. If she says ok then ask for her #. If she says no thanx, dont take it as an insult just say okay, cathca later and walk away. Find someone better! good luck.
2007-07-18 15:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Summerchic1315 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do? For starters realize that life is short, you won't be the first nor the last person to be rejected by a female. Women like bold and confident men, work on those qualites and you would be a sure fire. Secondly stop trying to approach a girl, find a women on the same level as you and take it from there.
2007-07-18 15:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by SexyandSensual.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I think that you should ask yourself what makes you think that you can't approach women? Is it that you may be afraid of rejection? Once you figure out the answer to those two questions you can work on that. If you feel that you can approach women but you just won't then you have a problem. :) But you have to look at it this way don't be afraid, everyone is not for everyone. There is somebody for everybody. Everyone has a type of person that they look for. If you approach a woman and she turns you down, don't take it as rejection, take it as you just were not her type. Everyone is not going to find you attractive. That is the way that I look at things.
2007-07-18 15:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by brownssugar03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have more confidence in yourself its cute when a guy is shy.. but sometimes that can get annoying you have to get the guts to ask someone you really like out...JUST BE UR SELF! everyone in this world makes a fool outta themselfs atleast once in a life time so if it turns out that way just laugh it off and try again, and try with the next girl.
2007-07-18 15:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by Flower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a nice guy. Get mean and nasty and attack all rivals and act like a caveman! Mark your territory and take all the best looking potential mates for yourself. The athesists say that us humans are just animals, so act like one anyways. There is no heaven or hell and no divine accountability. Just have fun and have sex as many times as possible get rich and laugh yourself to death.
2007-07-18 15:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well like my mom has always told me " you have to just sit back and when love is ready to find you it will " Until then just relax ... You sound kinda shy and thats ok ... If you see a nice girl that you find attractive just say hi and see what happens from there ....Best of luck to you ... :)
2007-07-18 15:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by R.I.P ANDY ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think that you are NICE guy but is that really what girls think about you?? maybe you are soooo funny above the limit so girls will think about you as serious guy or you make fun alot.. try to find your weak points and try to improve things in your character.. try to be gentle but not over... give yourself break..
2007-07-18 15:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by kaka k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a change in your environment.Sometimes it's not anything more than you not taking the first step.You just have to man up and make the first move...
2007-07-18 15:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by one_and_brace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋