My boyfriend went to Italy to 'work' there. I don't mind him going, but I just don't want to lose him. He told me that when he would meet someone new, that he wouldn't stop seeing her because of me. Okay I agreed (he has been away for a month now and will be staying there until October), I am not stupid... I know how he is, and that he loves girls (like every boy). But for the first time in my life, I really love somebody and I just don't want to lose him. But for now I just want to forget him. Because I really have a lot to do in these three months but it won't work when he's on my mind the whole time! and all the thoughts which are going trough my mind about him cheating on me... Everything reminds me of him and I've 'changed' since he went away. I have become so sensitive, I start to cry for the most stupid things: songs, what people say to me, the smallest difficulties,... Everythings seems so useless... Does somebody know what to do to forget a love? :) (Sry for my bad English)
2007-07-18 08:20:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go out with friends. You need to go out and look at guys just like he's looking at girls. Get over this guy, he said he would cheat on you. Why stay with somebody like that?
2007-07-18 08:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DON'T FORGET SOMEBODY YOU LOVE. You're going to have to wait it out. Don't try to control your feelings towards him because it only makes it worse on you. If there are no signs of you two getting back together, then go out and mingle with some other guys to take your mind off him. Or you and your girls go out together. Start occupying your time so that you won't spend days and nights day dreaming about him
2007-07-18 08:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one.... there's nothing that can make you forget about someone you love except time or replacements. However, you dont seem like the type to go find some other guy because your guy is still yours... kinda. Just give it time and you'll be okay..... keep yourself busy! like crazy busy so you wont have time to think about him!
2007-07-18 08:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can never understand why women are attracted to jerks. Is it the unpredictability that they like? In regards to your question, you need to ask yourself why you would want to be in a relationship when the other person isn't as committed? Have you two discussed where you stand with each other? These are the things you need to ask yourself.
2007-07-18 08:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by generasian2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation. but my bf got married and his wife is pregenet. (((it hurts))'
u got to be strong..every time u think of him try not to cry..i know, it hurts but lifes like that..
just think if he really loves u,,he would be with u
he would never leave u ..u should tell him how u feel and ask
him does he feel the same way
im still hurt and still in love with him but i moved on..u should do the same..
((u cant forget the people u love))
2007-07-18 08:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I'm concerned, if it's true love you never get over it. I have one of those now, and I miss him desperately. I doubt I'll ever 'get over him' but I have moved on. Good luck.
2007-07-18 08:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno it sounds bad but find another guy to occupy your time... that always works for me! but ohnestly girl u can do better
"He told me that when he would meet someone new, that he wouldn't stop seeing her because of me."
what kinda **** is that??? *** him hes an asshole find sum1 new and when he gets bk let him c what hes missing!!! i hope it gets better!!! good luck!!! <3
2007-07-18 08:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to loose him........but you want to forget him? odd. I saw a movie like this. get a hobby or a job that takes all your focus.
2007-07-18 08:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you surprise him and go to Italy
2007-07-18 08:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by felician0j 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋