2007-07-18 08:12:03 · 32 answers · asked by shortiewitfiness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have to ask it is not the right time wait. the more you wait the more intense it becomes if youwait until that wedding night you both will get a release meant only for the gods.
2007-07-18 08:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by rodawg7 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you the same thing I told my little sister...Since everyone seems so inclined to jump right into bed with each other these days, and that isn't always a good thing....Make him take you on 10 official dates before you even consider having sex with him...and I mean REAL dates, little brief encounters, or just hanging out with friends does not count....I think by the time you have done 10 official dates, plus any little encounters, phone conversations, etc in the meantime, you have some idea of who the person is, and how interested they really are (ie-If they are still cool with you, and things are going along well after 10 official dates with no physical action going on, they are probably genuinely interested....someone who is just out for sex will split before you reach this point usually...)
2007-07-18 08:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bruja 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is the best bet... but a lot of people don't wait for that anymore... so no matter how many times We tell you that... your going to do whatever you want anyways.....
Wait until your not scared... wait until you know the person... do you know their favorite food, color, something they are scared of... moms first name, # of siblings and their names, birthday? stuuf like that...Do you know them.... are they the first thing you think about in the morning and the last thing when going to sleep?
are they pressuring you? Are they willing to wait till marriage? Will they wear a condom? Will they marry if a baby comes in to play? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with them if a baby comes about?
Good luck and think it through... If you decide to.. be careful.... use protection... and always be prepared for what could happen, STD's, baby, ect.....
2007-07-18 08:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by They call me 'Mom' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer u wait to have sex,the more likely the relationship is to work out!
2007-07-18 08:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, a relationship eather makes it or breakes it at 3 months. Eather way at 3 months, something changes.
2007-07-18 08:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where ya'll are ready. there really shouldnt be a time line on when u sleep together bc the fact remains the act is still going to be done. so whether you wait 2months or 2 hrs sex is still sex.
2007-07-18 08:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask this question then your not ready to. You will know it in your heart. Don't rush things just let it take it's natural course.
waiting is never a bad move.
2007-07-18 08:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by Big Mamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl!!! i think the best time would be when u guys are both ready!!! if u know u have a sincere relationship and nuthin can come between ya'll then go for it wenever ur ready!!! good luck!!
2007-07-18 08:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lovelyy2012 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best time? All the time.
2007-07-18 08:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If, indeed, it is a relationship, then as soon as practical. No use prolonging things if you are sexually incompatible, and it's his main goal in consorting with you, anyway.
2007-07-18 08:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by Grendle 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋