guy friend flirted with me about us hooking up. the thing is he has a gf overseas and is engaged to her and knew I developed a deep crush on him. We exchanged a few words about getting together like where we do it, and if we would use protection, etc. I was really falln 4 him and he told me that it was best that i focus on someone else. anyway a few days later, I texted him to wish him Happy New Year's and he didn't text back and i got upset and called him a dog. I then wrote him a note apologizing to him and suggested that we stop texting each other about sex. Weeks later, he looked at me like he was angry but still said hi. I emailed him asking him if he was still upset and that it might be best that we treat each other as coworkers. he replied back and told me that i was too weird and that he was just jokin and that i should get some friends and a bf. Now I don't talk to him or even look his way, since I have mixed emotions about this, but now I kinda want get with him again.
2007-07-18 08:03:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on girl... leave the guy alone. He's just not into you. Sorry.
2007-07-18 08:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people flirt in order to give themselves a little boost or make themselves feel better. It sounds like you took it too far. He made it clear that he has a gf and that you should look elsewhere for a bf. So what is the problem? This relationship is really in your own head. Smile, wave and move on.
2007-07-18 15:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by TelulahB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I undestand that you still have feelings for him even though he treated you like dirt/garbage, it seems to me like he just wanted to use you while his FIANCE was overseas. This may or may not be the case, but think about it this way... what kind of guy would string along another girl, flirting, wanting to hook up, ect when he should be "fully commited" to his fiance?? Not one that i would ever want to get involved with. Really he does not deserve you. Move on, no matter how hard it is.
2007-07-18 15:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy could have been lonely knowing that his love is overseas and can't hardly talk to her, touch her, or do anything intimate with so it sounds like he wanted someone to fulfill those needs and he found you. Now he might have realized what he did to his love and may not see you that way anymore. You should really move on knowing if he plans on marrying this girl then he obviously truly loves her. Trust me you'd only be hurting yourself if you go back to him unless if only wants you and breaks up with his girlfriend, which probably won't happen. It sounds like you were the other woman that he got to fulfill his sexual/intimate needs.
2007-07-18 15:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have basically answered this for yourself. Obviously he doesn't want you. Girl go on with your life. In the long run, if you don't leave him alone now . . . you are going to be more hurt. In the meantime, continue on with the future & your day will sure to come when the right man come your way. Hello, he's engaged.
2007-07-18 15:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Integrity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a few days ago you text him Happy New Year's???
N-E-Ways you should leave him alon and find your own man! He is trying to just get you in bed and that's it. Sorry to say, but it sounds like he doesn't want a relationship with you. You wouldn't want to start a relationship with someone who is trying to cheat on his gf. Do you really think that he is going to be faithful to you?
Good Luck
2007-07-18 15:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the expectations you and he had were never headed together down a path of a relationship. Move on, and always express what you want in a relationship...a good man will respect you for that and want to make that path as wonderful and clear as possible.
2007-07-18 15:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wowww you can do so much better, stay far far away babe, seriously, and firstly he's with someone, but he sounds a bit of a prick for not really taking your feelings into account he's just slammed it straight at you and called you "too weird" i mean really, do you wanna be with someone like that?
didn't think so darlin'
it'll be hard, but move on.
2007-07-18 15:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely have a case of "wanting what you cant have" Please for your happiness Just move on and find someone else there are PLENTY of guys out there whether you want a relationship or whatever just forget about him he is talking to you while engaged you don't want someone like that...right!!?
2007-07-18 15:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by mg44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. If he has a girlfriend, and he was think of messing around with you, then he is not worth it. If you mess with him, then he is cheating on his girlfriend. What says he won't do it to you. There are too many guys out there for you to be stressed out about one.
2007-07-18 15:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by mackelcw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋