she wont call me!?

Question

im 15 and see my grandma once a week. i havent seen her for two weeks and i miss her. she never calls me and when i call her, there is no answer. i got a hold of her last week. she said she was busy. she is always busy. i called her twice today and she wont answer. she is very popular and always hanging out with her older friends. how can i make her call me? everyday is wasted because i have nothing to do. help! this is going to be another day wasted! btw her name is nancy. i made up a song:

nancy please call me
i was wrong
i messed up
and im so sad
your hello right now
would be the sweetest
voice i know
nancy please call me
i miss you
nancy please call
nancy please call
HELP I ****** MISS HER

Answer 1

What did you do to mess up? At 15 you really shouldn't be using those kind of words. How many times have you messed up and said you were wrong? I didn't see I am sorry any where in your song. How many times has she heard that or has she heard that before? Maybe she is trying to let you know that she isn't going to put up with any type of bad behavior and she doesn't have too!!! Sounds like you need to do some soul searching and figure out what went wrong and what you need to do to straighten yourself out. Then, maybe, when she sees that you are trying she will be there for you. Try writing her a letter and explain things to her and what you are going to do different from now on. Let her know how much she means to you and that you need her in your life.

Good luck!!!!

Answer 2

I don't think you're telling us the whole situation (the I was wrong part of your song). Have you tried writing her a letter? Sometimes people of older generations are more responsive to letters than phone calls (if she has hearing problems she may not feel comfortable talking on the phone anymore). Try and arrange a time to call her next time you see her in person. Or, you can drop by when you know she's usually home (only for a few minutes, don't be rude) and lend her a book you think she might like or offer to do some yard work or drop of some dinner. In the meantime find other things to do with your time besides obsess over this.

Answer 3

Well, it sounds like you may have done something she disagrees with. Have you had a chance to apologize? Write a letter about what happened, why you are sorry, and what you are doing to fix the situation. Grandma may not know what to say about it, so is saying nothing and avoiding the situation until she knows what to do. Many people find it difficult to have a face to face diagreement, write the letter so that she can read everything you have to say in the comfort of privacy, then hang back and let her call you when she's ready. Good luck!

Answer 4

Doesn't she have an answering machine?

And why haven't you seen Grandma for 2 weeks?

And what did you do to mess up?

And how about you getting a life of your own?

Answer 5

If you did something wrong or to offend her, apologize and mean it (in person works best) then give her space to accept the apology. Also uhm you're 15 get some friends and hang out with them and stop worrying!

Answer 6

Do not call your grandmother by her first name! She will call you when she has time. In the meantime find other ways to fill your time such as reading or playing sports.

Answer 7

Wierdo...have you thought about dialing a psychiatrist instead of your grandma? That's my suggestion.

Answer 8

Buy her some nice Jaffa Cakes....... And an Adult sized Nappy.

Answer 9

this aint tha best answer but how bout write her a letter leave a voicemail

Answer 10

lay off whatever the heck your on.