I was set up with a girl through mutual friends on Satuday night. Things went fine, we were able to hold a conversation and we made eachother laugh a couple of times. However, we were with a group and in a cheesy bar so it wasn't exactly romantic. When we said our goodbyes i went to give her a hug and a peck on the cheek, but she game me a peck on the lips. I then asked if we should do this again sometime. She said yes and gave me her number. We then kissed again, nothing too passionate just a quick peck on the lips. I called her last night (Tuesday) at about 9:10 and left a voicemail because she did not pick up. Should I call again if she dosn't call back or should I just write her off as not interested? Fyi...we are both 29. I wasn't blown away by her but I enjoyed myself with her and I'd like to give it a shot and see what comes of it.
2007-07-18 06:57:32 · 12 answers · asked by mwolferman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely not!
And watch the movie "Swingers" if you have any doubts...
2007-07-18 07:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call her back bro. You spoke Saturday, you called Tuesday, that's a completely acceptable timeframe. Now it's up to her. If she doesn't call back, her loss! Not yours!
And if she tries calling back in like two weeks telling you she had this and that going...it's most likely garbage...and she was really trying her luck with someone else, it didn't work, and now she's going to the next best thing.
If you don't hear back by weeks end...this Friday...move on bro. Nothing wrong with that.
2007-07-18 07:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should play cool, leave a messege and call the next morning will show her your are being desperate. Just let her call you, she definitly seemed interested, but if she doesn't call within the next few days, just take as a hind that she is not that into you.
2007-07-18 07:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tummyroad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her one more time and if you get her voice mail leave a message with your phone number just in case telling her to give you a call back. If she doesn't call back let it go.
2007-07-18 07:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't call you back she is not really interested so why call her?!
Besides, life sucks too much for you to stay with someone you don't feel the itches!
I think you should clarify your feelings first; as things looks to me right now... it's not worth it, really!
2007-07-18 07:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by Emil Alexandrescu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time to call you back. It's her move now and she could just be very busy; however that doesn't mean that she's not interested. Be patient!!
2007-07-18 07:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by honeyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you said in you message. Did you ask her to call you back? If so, then wait. If not then give her a call again.
to the dude above me.....bee's don't eat honey, they make it.
2007-07-18 07:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Don't quote me on this... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the worst that can happen if you call her again. you have absolutely nothing to lose so call her. id say what a day but if you dont hear back then keep it pushin.
2007-07-18 07:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by spydrwb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in her court now. Let her make the next move. Otherwise you may scare her off.
2007-07-18 07:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by Let's go Red Sox! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait 3 days, then call again. If she doesn't answer or call back then, it's over.
2007-07-18 07:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, give her sometime. she might have things to do. if she likes you then she will call when she's ready. you should only put the ball someones else court once.
2007-07-18 07:04:47 · answer #11 · answered by juggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋