i had a very short relationship this year that sprung from a holiday romance.. i packed up my bags and moved country to be with this guy... i loved his whole family and he was a right pig to me and left me hanging and homeless.. i had to leave a beautiful home, some lovely people and a perfect job.. i hate him so much but i keep having dreams about him and i dont understand why.. im always kissing him infront of his new girlfriend.. but im sure that i dont want him back im just sorry it all happened and i had to leave such great people that i met.. so what?? do i need "closure" with him or are the dreams about me missing his family? i just dont get it
2007-07-18 05:34:36 · 5 answers · asked by minx_vs_pheonix 1 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
ok ill divulge a little bit coz im not getting alot of answers here... one of the strangest dreams ive had is i was standing in the hall way of the flat i lived in with him and his girlfriend insulted my mother so i bit her in the face.. thats really not me... im not spiteful or agressive atall... another dream was me laying across our bed holding his hand and kissing him in my mind in the dream it was ok but in my real mind watching me have the dream i was like WTF are you doing... is that any help???
2007-07-18 05:56:49 · update #1
the relationship ended a month ago.. and i am a cold hearted ***** who doesnt let things like this get to her
(it lasted 4 months)
2007-07-18 05:57:45 · update #2
Because he is ingrained in your mind!
2007-07-18 05:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sami V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just worried that some other woman will replace you as a part of his family. You hate the fact that you had to move away from such great people. You are afraid of also being replaced,but I don't blame you for not wanting anything to do with that pig. Its just the family thing. Don't think that you have to get involved with him again you just adored his wonderful family,but you'll find someone to treat you with love and respect.
2007-07-18 12:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by •´`·.·´`•Mother.To`·.Be•´`·.·´`• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg just last night i had a dream about my ex. I dont want to be with him. we were together for 5 years and we broke up last summer. he lives like 45 miles away from me so i dont ever run into him anywhere. I dont know why i often have dreams about him... obviously we werent meant to be and i completely understand that because hes a douchebag. I do miss his family alot though. I dont know what it is either. but i hope you quit having those dreams... i hope i do to! good luck!
2007-07-18 12:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you develop a new loving relationship with a person who really loves you. Hate to say this but next time do not jump in with both feet. What he did was wrong, but you went way to fast. slow down
2007-07-18 12:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by lakelover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're not completely over him.
2007-07-18 12:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by stupidhead 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋