I found out that we lost the heartbeat sometime within the last 6 days and I sit here wondering how I will get over it. I have six other children, but it doesn't seem to make me better about this loss.
2007-07-18 04:33:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
you just take one day at a time.....i had a miscarriage when my oldest daughter was 10months old...i was devastated...we were trying to have another baby.....i was about three months along.....after a couple of weeks i came to realize that god new i wasn't ready for a second child and learned how to deal with my lost....today i have 3 beautiful children...and one stepson....just think about your other children you do have.....it will hurt for a while........but you will get through it
2007-07-18 04:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by brandypinkbtrfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes alot of time. I lost my baby at 19 weeks in May 2005, and there are still times I cry about it. Find a pregnancy loss support group, sharing your story with other mothers can help the healing process. Having other children gives you something to focus on during the day, but at night it all comes back. Let yourself grieve, and don't listen to anyone who says it was meant to be, something was wrong with the baby etc. It was your baby, and you loved it very much, and anticipated its arrival. As time passes you will find yourself thinking less and less about the loss,but it never really goes away. Mothers of "angel babies" will always carry that baby with them. It doesn't dominate our thoughts, but its always there, especially when we hear of another mothers loss. The only comfort I can give you is that one day you will be in the same position I am in, able to give advice and comfort to another mother who has had a loss and needs someone who understands.
I am so sorry for your loss, and I will pray for your comfort. God Bless
2007-07-18 11:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by parental unit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
((HUGS)) soooo very sorry to hear that.
think about the healthy children you do have...some aren't as fortunate as yourself.
i know from experience that( i lost 2) it isn't an easy time. if you are having a hard time go talk to your doctor or seek out a local support group in your area dealing in this matter..
i wish you well
2007-07-18 11:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know the answer to your question, but I just want to say that I am sorry you have to go through this experience.
As with anything, time will make it better. You will never forget, but the pain will fade.
2007-07-18 11:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by StayAtHomeMomOnTheGo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋