I'm really good friends with this girl....and i'm extremely good frieends with this guy......BUT those two are going out, and i really like that guy.
Do i just get over him?
2007-07-18 04:21:45 · 22 answers · asked by megan c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and me and him went on a trip to the east coast with our whole class but she didnt go and the whole time he flirted with me and other girls....
i talked to her about it and she seemed fine....i dont know if she talked to him about it.....but i think that im jsut gonna get over him becuase if hes flirting with me and other girls...what kind of guy is that?
thanks you guys were alot of help! =)
2007-07-18 05:07:41 · update #1
gurl i have been there done that and if you dont want to absolutely ruin your relationship with either person dont do it. if you relationship with this other girl isnt something you care about then i would say go for it if you think this guy might be the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with but be sure you dont want to burn your bridges and get hurt in the process.
2007-07-26 03:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tara 9600 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i just went through something very similar to this, just backwards.. Come to find out she was into me, and soon she broke up with her idiot boyfriend. Sounds good right? well i was just kind of waiting for her to totally get over her old boyfriend 'cause they did go for about 7 months, and then she found another guy. So now i'm SOL and stuck again. All i did is tell her one time that i had feelings for her, that was it and she said the same to me. SOOO i would just let him know sometime, just try to be very quiet about it. And if he really doesn't do anything about it, try and get passed it. BUT if they do break up, don't wait around too long.
2007-07-18 04:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by gcluney99 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
friends till now men. it is the main significant ingredient to endure in techniques. think of approximately it- the place would a courting top now flow? Marriage? Boyfriend after college? the two one in each of those are tremendously unlikely- yet friendship lasts for an prolonged time. in basic terms wreck up gently consisting of your boyfriend and stay friends with everyone. after which while each thing blows over, and your modern-day boyfriend is with somebody else and your ally has a boyfriend, then attempt your luck with this dream guy. do in basic terms no longer enable flow of friends for men so early on in existence.
2016-11-09 19:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the cardinal rule is you never date your friends boyfriends, doesn't matter how much you like them. You need to just get over it. What kind of friend are you to her if you are trying to be scandalous and move in on HER boyfriend anyway? That would be way too awkward to be dating your friends ex-boyfriend. I can guarantee your friendship with her will not be the same. What is more important to you, your friendship or a complete stranger?
2007-07-26 04:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by aunry2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a friend first. The worst thing you could do is to give into his flirting. If he will cheat on her to get you and you accept this behavior he will in-turn do it to you. Then you will not only loose your friend for stealing her boyfriend but you'll loose the boyfriend as well. Get over him is definitely the best thing for you to do.
2007-07-26 04:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Funeeegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just forget about him...I mean he's going out with someone already and yet he was flirting with you the entire time. If you were to date him what makes you think he wouldn't do the same? If you do end up going out with him just be careful because you could end up getting hurt.
2007-07-25 21:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is confident on her capacities. All that you do will never turn him or her on as they know you are a kid and they are matured as human beings. Leave both of them in peace. There are so many other guys..see if you like any one of them. That will give peace to your mind and you enjoy life without conflicts.
2007-07-25 20:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try, get over it and forget about him.
Keep your friendship live and never try to take
her boyfriend. You will never enjoy with him if you
take him as every passing minute you are going to spend
with him you will feel guilty of yourself.
Get over your thought and keep your friend (girl) for life.
With love.
Eddy.
2007-07-26 03:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he seems like the cheating type to me and if ur not smart u could end up loosing ur best friend 4 a guy who aint worth it in the end. i suggest just moving on and finding sum1 who u can keep ur friends with.
2007-07-26 04:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by JoshuaFrost 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes get over him . Don't go for him. You may end up losing both friends and getting into problems you wish you nvr got into.
2007-07-18 04:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by it's_me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋