My parents have been fighting alot lately. I asked my mom what had happend and why she was so mad at my dad. she told me not to worry about, that it is her and my dads problem and not mine. im really upset because today she told me that she is no longer living a happy life being together with my dad. Are they going to get a divorce??? What do i do??? im so scared because my dad left to go to work today, and he left angry. im scared that he is not going to come back for a while. Give me some advice on how to cope with this problem my parents have. i am 14 years old.
2007-07-18 04:19:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
wow i am exactly like you. my parents fight all the time but eventually it gets better. out of all the time my parents got into a fight there was never a divorce. their was a few times when my mom left the house for the rest of the day and even slept in the car over night. one time she actually started to pack some things up saying that she was going to move and asked me who i wanted to live with.
Despite all thats happened my parents didnt get a divorce. so i dont think your parents are getting divorced
2007-07-18 04:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by clueless 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh i feel so bad for you i mean my parents diveorced when i was like 1 or 2. i think that maybe you could ask one of your parents friends to bring up marrige counsuling when both parents are in the room. and look even if they do get a divorce look at it this way: at least they won't fight any more. i know this because my parents live 3states apart and i have to go by car every summer to see my mom and live with my dad. but when my dad and mom see each other they act like aquantinces. also even if they do divorce they will ALWAYS have a teeny weeny liittle amount of love for each other! but even if your mom said not to worry you should still be able to talk to her if she still wont let you talk to her, talk to one of your parents friends. whatever you do don't get depressed because that will add more stress to an alredy stress full situation . i hope your story has a happy ending. hope this helped
2007-07-18 11:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is stay out of it and know that what your parents are going through right now is NOT YOUR FAULT. They're not fighting because of you, or anything you've done, it's issues that they have in their marriage. Don't take sides, and if one of your parents starts talking bad about the other then leave the room--it's not fair to you for them to talk like that and make you feel like you have to take sides. If you go to church, talk to your pastor--they may be able to give you some more resources of how to deal, and they probably have more experience approaching your parents about the situation (more so than you or one of your friends, etc.).
2007-07-18 11:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. but i am younger then you (im 12). my parents fight very often and my mom cries and says they are definatley getting a divorce. you'll have to choose between your mom and dad (a hard decision to make). you can't interfear with your parents relationship, because keeping them together might make them miserable. they will stay together as long as they can for your sake, but may split up. i would suggest marriage counseling if youre that serious.
2007-07-18 12:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to deal with...its up to ur parents on what they want to do and u just have to deal with it......every one isnt gonna live a happy life for the rest of there lives...all u can do is comfort ur mom and ur dad when there alone and talk to them about ur feelings of when they fight....
2007-07-18 11:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by *S!LL!3G00B3R*TTC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their probably on the verge of getting a divorce.
2007-07-18 11:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can help you, you will have to face this problem
2007-07-18 11:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋