We use to talk all the time and there was never a quite moment. Now we can sit on the phone for 20 minutes without saying a word. What are some good questions to ask to get communication going again. No hateful answers.
2007-07-18 03:00:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By nature men are poor communicators and women are past masters at the art of communicating. Just give him a can of beer and the remote and all will be well.
2007-07-18 03:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise would be to remind him of what/how it used to be talking about everything and how things have changed since then and you two are now quiet... Ask him what has changed since then, and try to get an honest answer from him.
Talk about the news, the weather, School, Personal Dreams, Goals in Life, The future, the present, your relationship, your likes, your dislikes, your family life and any new changes there may be in your life....
Ask him if he has new interests, new friends, new habits, maybe he's not comfortable talking to you about some things but you can make it easier for him to open up by supporting him in whatever it is that interests him (as long as its something you're ok with as well, NOT like porn or going to strip clubs and stuff like that)
I understand how it is to be in an awkward stage like that... unfortunately for me it didn't work out because the girl I was with never opened up to me... it was so hard trying to get her to talk to me. But hey, I hope you can get through to him and I hope you two can continue on this nice path to getting to know each other more deeply. Good Luck to you and God Bless.
2007-07-18 10:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by VortexHunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋