What is the thing that separates a girl you like from a girl you are in love with? What is it that make her special??? (Please answer with objectivity...)
2007-07-18 02:35:28 · 20 answers · asked by Eliza D 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A woman that I fall in love with is compassionate, not selfish. Understanding, not all about herself. A woman, who is independent, but not too head strong. A woman that I know would be a good mother to my children. If a woman is weak, nagging, and lacks true values and morals, then no matter how pretty she is or how hot her body is... I would see her as nothing more than a sex object. NEVER a women, who I could fall in love with. I could also never fall in love with a woman, who doesn't have her own life. A woman, who worlds becomes her child and husband isn't an example of how I would want my daughter raised. I want my daughter to see her mother and she that she has all the potential in the world to be the next president, a doctor, a nurse. Men tend to take advantage of women, who let them. A women, who has no career and has no education means that she didn't take life into her own hands. She let life happen to her. I want a woman that I love to be my equal. One who is smart, loving, caring, understanding and a person that I can also learn from as well as a woman, who can learn from me. A woman, who takes care of herself, both mentally, physically and spiritually is what type of woman that I fall in love with.
2007-07-18 02:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I could go on forever naming attributes etc. , but they would not necessarily be objective. Love is subjective. Love is an emotion. Love is sometimes blind.
That being said, the one quality that would make you special is the ability to be so secure within yourself that you could give away your talents to him in a way for example, that you could make a great decision and let him think that it was he who made the great decision, and praise him for making it. In other words, the ability to make a man feel good about himself. Those who are secure enough to master this usually end up marrying Doctors, Executives, and other millionaires.
But really, who wants to be rich (don't answer that lol!). Back to your original question, forget about things that separate you from liked or loved. Just be yourself and enjoy life. When you meet the right person , YOU will be the thing that is special. That is why he will LOVE you.
2007-07-18 03:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kenneth L 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The girl you are in love with is what separates a girl you like. What makes her special can vary. Looks, size, hair long or short, her smile, her shyness, and the way she looks at you. The way she makes you feel. I believe your heart is what really separates the two. The question you asked makes me feel you want to change your ways to possibly make people like you more. Being happy with yourself and having confidence will make you attractive to people.
2007-07-18 02:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by black jack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.....I generally love most all women reasonably....but I only have sex with one of them at a time darling. I don't wanna be in a relationship where multiple sexual players are involved otherwise. ( not very safe conditions for great erotic sensual play seriously ) I don't like being the "other guy" in any intimate relationship honestly! Who wants to be labeled as "the second fiddle" really? ...not me!!! Does any of this stuff make any logical sensitive sense to you too anyways?.....It's just my thing babe....not everyone elses.
2007-07-18 02:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl you like could be for a number of reasons; her looks, personality, sense of humor, how she treats me, ....she ever could be the one I love, but its to late if I made a commitment with another one that I have fallen in love with first.
2007-07-18 02:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its unquantifiable. I had this conversation with my girlfriend. She told me she loved me, I felt pressured. So I told her the truth. That I dont know what it means. If it means caring about her and liking her, then yes I love her. But I know deep down that I am not IN love with her. So in a way, this is a non answer....
2007-07-18 02:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jake B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A deeper connection, We share a passion and attraction that is on a totally different level that say, liking someone as friends.
2007-07-18 02:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by Ken R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just comes down to that special connection. If she dresses like she is looking for attention, that would be someone I wouldn't fall in love with. A woman that dresses more conservative shows me confidence and that is someone I would fall in love with.
2007-07-18 02:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Paul 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
her reaction to my action, before we can love it is always better that we get to each, and from this it grows to like each other, and allow our bond to grow for one another. most of the time, and in most cases love needs to be cherished, but when it is done right, it is a love that will last a life time.
2007-07-18 16:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by Hellbound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is diffrent. if u like someone u just wanna one night stand with them or a close friend. but when u love someoone u wann be with them and around the 24/7. aal u can think of is them. love hurts unlike a crush
2007-07-18 02:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋