should i be called insensitive when i do not see what lies infront of me? what if i really didnt fall for him?

Answer 1

Since you didn't include many details, I have to make some assumptions. I'm assuming that a guy has accused you of being insensitive because he had feelings for you that you didn't see or share and perhaps he has accused you of leading him on. If I am correct, then here is my advice:

1. You are not responsible for another person's feelings if you were not aware of those feelings. Be honest with yourself. Did you know he cared or not?

2. If you honestly did not know, then you are clear. You are only responsible for what you do after you know. If he is truly your friend, then explain that you don't share romantic feelings, but would like to maintain a friendship (if this is the case). He may be difficult to deal with if he is hurt, so tell him that you will leave it up to him to decide.

3. No matter the decision, it will take time for him to heal. Be patient and be careful so that this doesn't happen again.