Okay I Have a girlfriend and i went to a party with my friend one night, there was some women there and i started drinking, i meet this chick, she was drunk and next thing i know, she was giving me a B!@#$%^! and then we had sex. i regret it bad Did i cheat
2007-07-17 18:24:43 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm . . . I'm going to call you out and say this never happened.
2007-07-17 18:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by pa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you did cheat! even if you were drunk, you knew exactly what you were doing. did you use protection? i've been drunk before and i remembered everything. you should have told her to leave you alone. Can't you think of it: since you were drunk, it would have been much easier to tell her where to get off!, if you are the shy type. Oh! another bit of advice: quit the alcohol, coz the same thing will happen and you might find yourself in trouble like STDs, unwanted pregnancies... rings a bell? if u say u used protection, that'll mean you did have an intention to get some that night, why else would you bring protection along?
2007-07-17 18:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by babybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You apparently did.... I think you should tell your gf cz she will find out anyway and just try to explain that you were drunk. Promise not to get drunk again or at least only when she's around.... be honest .. if u have rly regreted it then just tell her dont hide it from her and if she loves you she will forgive you... at least you've learned that drinking too much makes you do stupid things that you regret afterwards...
best of luck and dont get drunk in public ... be honest with ur girl she deserves it.....
2007-07-17 18:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did. But if you man up and explain to your girl what you did. And be 100% honest. It won't be as bad as if she found out, or some **** like that. Tell her flat out that you made a mistake and now you know not to get blitzed when there are other girls around. Tell her that you weren't in the right frame of mind (but don't use that as a scape goat, girls HATE excuses...they find it attractive when you take responsibility for your actions) and tell her that still that is NO excuse to justify what you did. Say you're sorry and make it up to her.
2007-07-17 18:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what other definition would you give for cheating other than what you just asked in your question?! I think you did cheat! Maybe if you can't handle your alcohol without screwing around on your girlfriend you shouldn't drink!? Just a clue for you in the future!
2007-07-17 18:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you did. Better tell the lady soon before the guilt starts to really eat you up. Hopefully she'll forgive you, but most likely that won't happen. You gotta live with your choices. Good luck.
2007-07-17 18:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Monkey2345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you decide to grow up and then decide to figure out whats right and wrong in a relationship, than and ONLY then should you be w/ anyone
i feel sorry for your girlfriend
if shes any kind of woman when YOU TELL her (its the least you could do) that you cheated shell drop you faster than OJ's new book
2007-07-17 18:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by spindymindi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"YEAH"...."THIS IS CHEATING ALRIGHT"....!!!
with intention or without intention....drunk or not drunk...its still cheating!!
Lets me ask u...
when u have sex with that girl...do u have feeling...are your mind clear that u are ******** her..??
ask yourself...can u say u are not cheating while your mind is clear of what u have done??
but cheating or not....whatever done cannot be undone..so just make sure u don't ever repeat it again..if u really love your girlfriend.. okay.
2007-07-17 18:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by nightowls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes thats cheating!! And before you have sex with your girlfriend again, get tested ... sex with random women is not good.
Tell your girlfriend and hope she forgives you, or keep shut for the rest of your life.
2007-07-17 18:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Lets just turn the tables.... if your girlfriend had done this exact thing with another guy, would you feel like she betrayed you?? Or would you be totally cool with it? (didn't think so.) Your brain is in your pants, try keeping it there instead of whipping it out when it grows.
2007-07-17 18:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you were with someone and then someone else even though you were drunk and you slept with them then yes you cheated even if it was just a kiss
2007-07-17 18:30:16 · answer #11 · answered by dragonwizard41179 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋