Why do guys tend to find two girls and then want to go out with both of them... This guy that I'm like in love with says that he's in love with me and his ex... He lives with her now but says that he wants to be with me... But I keep hearing about what he does with her... Like acting all lovey dovey... Can anyone explain to me what he is really doing... Is it just that he can't make up his mind or something??? I don't know
2007-07-17 17:50:43 · 11 answers · asked by BabyGirl7044 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The way i see it, He still may be in "Love" with his Ex. He wants to be with you but he wants to be with his Ex at the same time....It's not that you dont satisfy him it's just that there is something that lingers around his Ex that he pretty much wants. Trust me this happened to me, I fell in "Love" with a girl at school and then I got a GirlFriend....Well lets just say my girlfriend wasnt to happy that i couldnt let go of the "other" girl....I got over her though (but not intirely). Im not saying he's gonna go back with her, Im just saying that it's gonna take some time....And eventually he should let her go, But not completly...
2007-07-17 18:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either can't make up his mind, is lying to you and she is not really that much of an ex, he is just saying that to keep you around. He may be trying to end things but does not have the guts to do so. Know matter how you look at it, it is not good. If he really liked you that much he would not still be all up into what his ex is doing. He would move out and get his own place and then be with you. The fact is you don't need that kinda stuff in your life. There is enough to deal with the last thing you need is a man that can not make up his mind about who he really loves. I hope he is not leading you on and using you as his second "secret" girlfriend. I would let him go.
2007-07-18 01:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u might just be a bootycall. he might just be sayin he wants to be w/u, but really he dont. if he lives w/her and still loves her, then she must feel the same to let him stay w/her. if 70% of the time yall see each other yall do the nasty, then u probably just a bc. does she know about u. can u call him anytime w/out having to rush off the the phone. u just need to leave him alone and give him sum time to straighten his stuff out then if he wants u he'll come back 2u.
2007-07-18 01:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by unknownperson124 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's kind of built in; a male fantasy. Having two 'wives'. Of course, like all fantasies, it usually doesn't work too well in real life, but it's up to you if you want to give it a try.
2007-07-18 00:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems like he's just using you =(. He wants to keep your waiting on the side. Just move on, cuz you'll only get hurt the long run.
2007-07-18 00:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by crazy_young_folk 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow! That's a lot of baggage... just leave him.. there's no point to have a relationship with a guy like that!
2007-07-18 00:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by Blythe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
by letting him continue doing this to both of you, he gets to have his cake and eat it to. does the ex know about you? the best thing you could do for yourself is drop this loser
2007-07-18 01:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by dragonflydreams66 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he can;t decide he love you both equally and he's going under great pressure on him but he does need to decide or it could get ugly
2007-07-18 00:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he still lives with his ex, run, run, run
He just wants an easy booty call, his ex and him are propabably just seeing other people, but still have feeling for one another, they still live with each other.
2007-07-18 00:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
easy, so simple, he wants in your pants, and odds are, the odds that he is playin anyway, is that you will be so naive or stupid to let him in your pants,
2007-07-18 00:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by rosie p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋