Yes!
There are so many possible dangers awaiting your cousin if she decides to run away with this guy. If you lover her you can't keep silent.
2007-07-17 17:31:35
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answer #1
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answered by little lamb 4
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Eloping with intention to..this sounds like a police case and the cases are not even full. Running away with someone there are fundemental questions you need to answer prior to taking a hike .. these are..
The main reason..is it someone you are going for or are you being cohersed into skipping the family home..
You need to know where you are going? How are you going to survive and live? You gotta eat? You gotta sleep? You gotta have needs in order to survive out there. Life is not stragling along in a relationship that's so so..think hard about it. If you become inpregnated..what's next? Is this intentional or are you actually being side-winded by another other than yourself?
What are the misses? What will you miss?
What effect do you think this will make on friends and relations alike?
Yer age is unknown to me at this time - so, sit, think, think and think again. It maybe that you feel at odds with those round you - but don't plunge into things you might not know.
If the parents have any caring manners they would already sense that something is up and may begin putting sticks in place in order to avoid losing their kid to a fling.
Sense and sensibility - common sense always wins in the end. If its just a holiday or definate - each and all should know what's what and where and when.
Good luck!
2007-07-18 14:35:14
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answered by upyerjumper 5
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I can understand your loyalty to your cousin, but in cases where someone is making an obviously bad decision that could affect them negatively for a long time, it's important that
you step in to do what you can to stop them and if that means telling her parents, then so be it. In fact, it shows that you care greatly for her. So while it may seem you are being disloyal, in actuality, you are being loyal to her welfare and that's probably more important. You will not regret this and she will probably thank you one day.
2007-07-18 00:35:41
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answered by stevieray 4
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Depends on how old she is. If she is under 18, I definately would. If anything would happen to them and you knew the entire time, you would feel horrible b/c you could have told.
Why is she running away? How are things w/her family? Try being there for her and talking sense into her..
2007-07-18 00:32:44
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answered by Deeda 3
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How old is she? If she is not in extreme danger at home I say you tell your mom or dad and have them say something. Alot could happen to her if she runs off with some guy... even if he is her boyfriend.
2007-07-18 00:32:32
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answered by Me 6
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If she is under 18y/o, yes. It is a dumb thing to do at any age but if she is under age, her parents are responsible for her and she is under their authority.
To tell her parents is the best thing that you could do for your cousin.
2007-07-18 00:34:32
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answered by Smartassawhip 7
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NO!!!!!!!!! dont be a *****.
if a person wants to leave, they will leave no matter what. if u want, tell her not to leave or to think it through. no matter what u tell her rents, she will end up leaving and this time she might not call u to tell u if shes okay or where she is.
if she wants to leave, then maybe she will contact u.
just try to talk to her and be nice
2007-07-18 00:36:34
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answered by mitlilkizbi 2
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YA!!! wat if she gets pregnant and the boyfriend is a p-uss-ies out!!
so tell her parents that they better talk to her and tell them to be ina look out for this saturday.
and so the cops can find them, tell her she should keep her cell so that way u can say your final goodbay saturday (then the cops can track them)
2007-07-18 00:39:05
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answered by dojo boys* A /\/\ecH 2
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If she is a minor, you must tell. She could be about to ruin her life.
2007-07-18 00:32:29
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answered by notyou311 7
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let her know of the mistake she is about to do. and let her know of all the consequences and let her know that u care enough to tell her parents. AND DO IT!!!
2007-07-18 00:43:52
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answered by TJ:-) 1
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