So I have been in a off and on relationship wih this so called wounderful guy for about 2 years now. We have broke up alot, more then the adverge time. Everytime we break up I hear that he has been ling to me and cheating, and everything else you can think of. I hear this stuff from alot of people and they are usually relieable. They have said from the get go that you deserve better and he won't and doesn't treat you right. We also had a problem with him waiting to have to much sex like 7 10 times a day. I didn't want a really big sexual relationsip so it made be believe that he was just in it for the sex.. but why would a guy stay around that long if that's all I was? So I changed my cell # and tried to move on with my life so he sleeps on my porch and asks my dad for my hand in marrige.. dad said no but for me to give him another chance. I tried to work it out, but I think it was just to late.. he did try this time but I was just done.. he is still trying?
2007-07-17 16:51:26 · 11 answers · asked by Rose W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its obvious that he wants something that he can not have. He is stalking you. Get a restraining order against him and get on with your life.
2007-07-17 16:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by ldmhuston 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he has time to have sex 7-10 times a day he needs to get a second job if he has a first. if you catch him sleeping on your porch, call the police. that is not healthy to break up, go back, break up, go back. while he's out there cheating he may bring you back something you cant get rid of. how many chances does dad think this guy should get? if dad knew about all this wierd behavior, im sure he wouldnt be encouraging the relationship.
2007-07-17 23:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by JJDK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD GIRL!
theres one for the girls,
but hey if he's still bugging you
go get a restaining order on him,
so that he will get the message maybe he could also be inflatuated with you more then he loves you...
try to ignore the situation and keep living your life....even if he does try and get in your way the more you ignore the fact that he's there will sure be effective!
2007-07-17 23:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe this story. But, if it's true.
I would think a guy would be a cheater if he's that frisky all the time. That's way beyond a normal sex drive.
He sounds obsessed with you and if I were you I'd be worried.
2007-07-17 23:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by 354gr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trying ?? he sounds very trying lol,
& where does he get the energy for that amount of sex? Seriously, you need to get your dad to tell him to leave you alone.
2007-07-18 02:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by shortstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men don't know what they've lost until its gone. & if He was taking you for granted before.. (if he wasn't you certiantly would still be together!) He'll take you for granted again. Tell him to move on. Move on yourself! You deserve better!
2007-07-17 23:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by LuvMy2Kids 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the reason that this is happen is because you have not made
it clear that it over. this back and forth is not good for any one'
if it really over then you have to make a clean break once
and for all. other wise you will continue this roller coaster
ride.
2007-07-17 23:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make it clear and get a court order on the git. next tell him you've got sexual herpes and he may change his sex life.
2007-07-17 23:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you just need to continue on the path you are on. Ignore him and go on with your life.
Hard? Yes.
Doable? Yes.
Strengthen yourself and go on.
2007-07-17 23:55:39 · answer #9 · answered by jamick71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound very "wonderful" as you put it. He sounds like controlling, stalker boy. Call the cops.
2007-07-17 23:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋