I'm very sad and am low spirit because my parents keep saying no about me going to JW meeting. I told my parents that I want to visit to JW congregation for once but they are afraid that I might abandon or lost my interest in Catholic faith if I went to JW meeting... Please help. I'm not very happy with my parents right now. I'm kind of mad at my parents because of that. What can I do?
2007-07-17 14:56:28 · 26 answers · asked by The Female Gamer 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Why do non-JWs keep answering my question? PLEASE LOOK AT THE BRACKET PART!!!
I'm not very happy with you guys too. Just leave me alone. I only want Jehovah's Witnesses to answer my question. That's it.
2007-07-17 15:15:30 · update #1
I think I should add some more details about my parents. My parents are Catholic but they have no interest in reading the Bible or want to learn from it. I mean they never read it. I'm very shocked what my mom said to me recently. She said that she doesn't like to see me reading the Bible. What is wrong with my parents?!
2007-07-17 15:28:02 · update #2
To sklemetti:
Your statement cracks me up! I have never seen any Jehovah's Witnesses saying like that. Lol.
But I think I should remain obedient to my parents as other Jehovah's Witnesses said and that will probably help my parents to recognize that Jehovah's Witnesses is all about love, obey, and showing respect. I have their two DVDs. You will probably know what I'm talking about. Yes, I did read their literature on their website and I enjoyed it a lot.
2007-07-18 06:45:19 · update #3
Wow, you've got it rough! I'm sorry for your situation. I was mostly raised in the truth (started going to meetings when I was 6) but my father was extremely opposed. I can't say I entirely know what you mean, but I have an idea what you are going thru. What you can do depends a lot on your age. Have you been to the meetings before? Do you know any witnesses in your area who might be able to help you out? Even if you can't actually get to the meetings, will your parents object to a Bible study? At least that way you can keep your spirituality up. Pray about it! Jehovah works in miraculous ways! Also I recommend reading the article on page 26 of the July 2007 Awake if you haven't already. I found it really encouraging and I'm sure you will too. :)
Keep strong and rely on Jehovah, and he will bless you!
2007-07-19 00:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mabes 6 · 14⤊ 2⤋
Depending on how old, or young, you are, you must respect their wishes, for now. If you are getting the Watchtower and Awake mags then keep up with those. The next time you see a Witness, ask if you can have the new book about Following the Christ. VERY easy reading. Till the day comes when you can go to a Kingdom Hall keep praying to Jehovah God. Part of being one of His people means long suffering. I don't like this part of it but it will teach you plenty.
I look forward to the day when I can call you sister.
2007-07-19 14:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Suzy 7 · 8⤊ 2⤋
As the others & Learn about the one true God stated you see now that the #1 common denominator is to Pray. Go in your room & actually call out Jehovahs name & talk to him like your talking to us or better yet your closest friend. remember Hebrews 11:6 that God is the rewarder of the one that earnestly seeks him.
Never talk back to your parents (not saying that you do).
but just ask again politely each time they go & if they say no just say Mother or Father I dont understand why but i will respect your decision on this matter until i get older & quitely walk away. And literly tell them that you Love them and mean it.
Keep reading your bible also & ask us for help maybe one day soon you could show them something from the bible too at least make them think.
Your prayers will be answered if you are persistant & perservere in them.
and look on the bright side of all this......
At least your parents ARE GOING.... Maybe Jehovah will let them see something in their heart to change.
We All Also will Be praying for you.........
2007-07-19 11:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by ray_clrk 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I think brother Steve (Klemetti) is being a bit sarcastic and does not mean for you to take all his words literally.
But it is true that following the Bible-based teachings of Jehovah's Witnesses would make you a better person and a better Christian.
How to convince your parents of that if they won't let you read the Bible or attend meetings?
Well, continue to obey them. And let them know that you are doing this because that's what the Bible says you should do.
In the meantime, you can continue to read the literature and perhaps associate with Witnesses in other ways.
Then when you are all grown up, you can follow your dream.
2007-07-19 06:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by בַר אֱנָשׁ (bar_enosh) 6 · 7⤊ 3⤋
In ur Q, u said "to let me go w/ him," So ur dad IS going?
But, then u go on to say they (ur parents) don't want u to go????
I'm bit confused,here.
Since he is going. Flat out & simply put YOU tell him:
I want to hear & know & see; what you hear & know & see.
If he goes to a Dr. that will treat You for FREE why would he NOT want YOU to go?
Since you r underage, u have to do as ur parents say.
You may CONTINUE TO PRAY TO JEHOVAH;
NO1 can TAKE or STOP YOU from THIS! Except, urself.
Be reasonable, be respectful; ur parents are only doing what they believe to be best 4 u. Since ur mom doesn't want u to read the Bible, at all. Then she's attemting to stop u from Learning about God.Here is where YOU decide to follow man or God. Here is where YOU can put ur foot down (w/ respect!) talk to ur mom, tell her how u feel, what u want, ask if she'll at least let you have a Bible study? Will she let u read the literature so it'll help you gain a better understanding, as it pertains to MANY things going on, on the world scene.There r also news articles from around the world. Science articles. Fun & interesting facts. Alot more then just Bible info.That YOU Want a personal relationship w/ God. In order for that to happen YOU Must read His Word, and apply what u learn in ur life. Ask the sisters for the book "Young People Ask," this book will help you gain perspective on how to carry urself, towards ur parents w/ respect. Although u have opposing views/ beliefs.
Jehovah knows YOU and has read ur heart,
He will NOT abandon YOU.
Nor will He forsake YOU.
Keep Praying To Him.
He will make a way.
Do you believe this? Then it will be so.
EDIT: Adam's Rib & Ray Clrk can I vote for best answer?
I know; a tie.
2007-07-19 05:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
Since you are living with your parents, you have to honor them and their decisions but just rely on Jehovah in prayer. He will guide you in the right direction and will you give you the strength to endure. If you continue to read the Bible and Pray and eventually your parents will see that you are dedicated and that you really love Jehovah, (like I do). See if they would like to attend with you and maybe they will enjoy it(which I wouldn't blame them)to the point you will all become Jehovah's followers. Serving Jehovah is the best part of life.
2007-07-19 11:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
you seem very convinced that JW's have the truth, I'll help you, you might have to have a secret Bible Study, Go to this link & request a visit www.watchtower.org but I'll answer your questions, how old are You? I'm 64 & my only interest is to help people find the truth from the bible I've been a Witness since 1975
The Bible says to use discernment, (not decption) take the example of the apostles (Acts 5:27-32) . . .So they brought them and stood them in the San′he‧drin hall. And the high priest questioned them 28 and said: “We positively ordered YOU not to keep teaching upon the basis of this name, and yet, look! YOU have filled Jerusalem with YOUR teaching, and YOU are determined to bring the blood of this man upon us.” 29 In answer Peter and the [other] apostles said: “We must obey God as ruler rather than men. 30 The God of our forefathers raised up Jesus, whom YOU slew, hanging him upon a stake. 31 God exalted this one as Chief Agent and Savior to his right hand, to give repentance to Israel and forgiveness of sins. 32 And we are witnesses of these matters, and so is the holy spirit, which God has given to those obeying him as ruler. . .
so you see sometimes you have to disobey if the orders conflict with God's
2007-07-20 07:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by zorrro857 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
how old are you? Well I know that's tough to swallow but you have to follow your heart. There's nothing wrong with visiting any religious origination's, God and his Son stated that family will be broken up brother against brother. Like I say before follow your on heart Jehovah knows your heart, and good luck
always pray for strenght and that Jehovah and his holy spirit will guide you in the right way, maybe ask your parents to have a study that may help!!!
2007-07-19 13:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by lydia 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Believe it or not, but your parents are trying to do what they believe is best for you.
I think it is commendable that you want your father to come with you to the meeting.
I think you are hoping that your father will see the type of people Jehovah's Witnesses are and will let you continue to attend.
Does he let you read the literature? If so you could leave articles that you think he will be interested in.
As to forcing the issue, this would probably backfire.
This would only reinforce their idea that you are to young.
For now the best thing to do is to show your maturity by being respectful, don't argue, but continue to remind them (lovingly) that your obedience is because of what you've learned from the bible.
To help wet your parents spirituality, you might ask 'simple' bible questions.
"What did Jesus mean when he said __________?'
King David said the whole world would leave him, but Jehovah never will.
Use this time to draw close to him in prayer, and bible study.
agape.
Terry
2007-07-18 01:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by TeeM 7 · 19⤊ 2⤋
Fathers are universal in a couple of things. They always worry about their daughters and they don't want to spend money.
Point out to your father JWs do not accept converts off the street. It takes time and study to become one. So a few meetings will do no harm.
Next, no collection plate or bag is ever passed at any meeting. He will not have to pay out anything. No one will ask him for money. You just bring your Bible.
Do not worry so much about your mom's aversion to using the Bible. Many years ago, the RCC made a real effort to keep their people away from the Bible reading. It was dumb, but there are still some adults who still follow that attempted rule.
Prayer helps. Sincerely made for the right reasons. I hope you can get there.
2007-07-19 00:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by grnlow 7 · 12⤊ 3⤋