guys (perticularly annoying ones) come up and hit on me EVERYWHERE!! its sooooooo annoying got any help??
pleeeeez!:)
2007-07-17 13:57:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i really dont spend tht much time at da library look at my spelling 4 goodness sake LOL
2007-07-17 14:04:48 · update #1
srry 4 miss spelling!!!!!! my bad
2007-07-17 14:08:09 · update #2
omg not looking for compliments looking for help!!
2007-07-17 14:09:51 · update #3
Because they want booty...... If you are not interested in being hit on, wear baggy clothes and don't make eye contact with people. Change your screenname to "lil bookworm". It's your image that is attracting the wannabes.
2007-07-17 13:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by no jap crap 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Now Now Now... Are some of you ladies jealous?
I wasn't going to reply to this until I read others posts and noticed a lot of you woman ganging up on her.
It's obvious you have never encountered this, well I have. Since I was young and I still do all the time. And Yes.... It Is "VERY" Annoying!
I think I'm just too nice and many think I'm easily approachable.
I am attractive, but I in no way dress provocative or give off any notions that I'm looking to be hit on. I also carry myself like a lady.
I am friendly and adamant about helping anyone that needs it (meaning opening doors for the elderly etc) and I almost always have a smile on my face, but it doesn't mean I'm inviting you to approach me for a date.
I can't even go to the grocery store...
If a woman is interested, believe me we will give you some inclination.
PS - I don't think she means guys that just walk up and say hello. That's acceptable.
I have a problem with "hey babe, hows your day." or "your hair looks nice today." and they don't have a clue who I am.
One of the funniest and ridiculous I ever heard was, nice perfume, and I wasn't wearing any. This kind of behavior I find annoying and unacceptable.
(also, there are many more that are worse that I won't mention)
2007-07-19 22:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by MsElainious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do random guys hit on you? How would it NOT be random?
They are just lonely and looking for a girlfriend. Just be polite and tell them that you are not interested. You can try introducing them to someone else who might be interested, or else give them some advice on how to hit on some OTHER girl instead of you.
2007-07-17 21:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately that is how guys are if you are good looking. Depending on how you dress or how you do your hair or makeup men may be more likely to come up to you. Make sure that you are covered up and maybe that will help. I know it is not fair, sometime the attention is nice, but most generally it is just annoying.
Try not to give guys any reason to give you more attention. If you don't want to be bothered tell them. Don't be afraid to say no.
Good Luck! Sometimes it is hard being a women!
2007-07-17 21:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mindy R 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You don't seriously spend a lot of time at the library, do you??? That was just a randum example, right?
2007-07-17 20:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by a-mac 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
My guess is they're attracted to you. I understand what you mean though. You're minding your own business and someone comes up to interrupt your studying to hit on you. It's always going to happen though. Just politely say "No thank you".
2007-07-17 21:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
huh?! you have problem with guys hitting on you? because none of them are the kind of guys that you like? If guys didn't hit on you, would you think something there is wrong with you and why no guys hit on you?
2007-07-17 21:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your probably attractive give a man his due as long as their respectful it shouldn't bother you If no one every approaches someone ho do you know if they'll like a date
2007-07-17 21:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they think your name is Til Lap Dancer. No really, you must be very friendly and attractive. Take it as a compliment.
2007-07-17 21:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by musteatdonut 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
ok there is NO reason to waste 5 points on a dumb question here to boast your hottness!!! you already know the answere to that!appreciate that you get attention from guys..not many girls have that advantage!..if they hit on you just listen to you ipod! that's what they were made for- ignoring people!!
2007-07-17 21:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by pamplemousse 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋