so i'm liking one guy.. and when i like one guy i Only want to like him. i'm only in high school so i Should be Dating around i guess at this point in my life since i don't have an official Boyfriend.. and so i can get a taste of a bunch of different people to know my favorite flavor, ya know.. but i am the kind of person who gets emotionally attached and i want to devote all my time to that one person... i don't know.. is that wrong?
and then other guys will tell me they like me.. and i turn them down because i think it's wrong to lead them on. but then i get jealous when they start liking someone else....
what's wrong with me?
2007-07-17 13:45:20 · 6 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what the hell.. how is devoting my "liking" to ONE guy cheating....
whatever. you need to learn how to read and Interpret things. i've never cheated in my life. and never would. and plus, uh.. i've never had a Boyfriend to CHEAT on in the first place. fag.. don't ever call me a ***** again.
2007-07-17 13:51:05 · update #1
You are doing great. Its never wrong to devote yourself to one person at a time.
Do what u feel u want to do. Dont listen to anyone telling u what u should or shouldnt be doing. Do what U want to do.
Good luck hun.
2007-07-17 13:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing. It's crazy when you're young and you get all of these feelings at once. I used to get jealous when married guys talked to other girls at work or something. It was a darn shame I used to be that way. I personally never officially dated anyone in high school. They were so immature (in my eyes). So, what I did was I just befriended many guys and hung out with them on a strictly friends deal. It's not bad to get to know a lot of guys. This doesn't mean you have to have sex with everyone you meet. Just enjoy being young, but be safe!
2007-07-17 20:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by mypitbullrocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not a bad thing to devote yourself to that person...but love is a two way street and you have to make sure that they like you back and if they don't move on...I'm only in high school too...but I've learned that you have to move on when only one guy doesn't like you...I just got out of a relationship and I didn't realize how many people like me...today I got asked out by two people but I turned them down cause i LOVE to flirt and be free...just flirt and have fun then you will find someone...I promise<3
2007-07-17 20:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by Amelia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think "playing the field" will come later. in high school, if you date around, you get a bad reputation. it sucks but it's true. if you want to date one guy then just make sure he wants it too. there's nothing wrong with that.
2007-07-17 20:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the one you like the most.
2007-07-17 20:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your addicted to guys... its normal for us, just remember, when you have a boyfriend DONT FLIRT with other guys and dont tell your boyfreind your jealous over other guys not likeing you when they used to like you... think about your boyfriend and NO OTHER GUY
2007-07-17 20:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by Joie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋