my love is gay but i can't live without him!!! we never have been together in real life but we have done alot in my dreams and fantasies...
2007-07-17 13:01:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Without a sex change operation, you have no hope, and it is time to move on and find a new love. It might be easier and less painful to make a clean break. I wish you the best and all happiness.
2007-07-17 13:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG that must really suck! Falling in love is a wonderful thing but when the person doesn't love you back, it's an entirely different feeling. You say you can't live without him, but it's not like you can turn a gay guy straight. Maybe all he'll ever be is a close friend.
Good Luck Hun!
2007-07-17 20:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by ladysequoia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find your girlfriends and get out more to the mall and go sight-seeing if you know what I mean. This is not healthy! There's a lot of 'guys' out there who would love to go out with a girl like you. Open not just your heart but your mind to accept new guys in your life and may I suggest that you wake up and make your dreams and fantasies come true! I'm sure, there's a guy out there who could be your knight in shining armor. So, wake up princess!!
2007-07-17 20:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Pröƒé§§ôr♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between fantasy and reality. You may be obsessed with him, but that is not love. You can and will learn to live without him. You cannot change him, all you do is cause irrepairable damage to what friendship you may be able to have. Let it go.
2007-07-17 20:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by C J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard of this so many times, look.... you only think you love him. I know that seems really bad and you might not listen but its the truth, what you need is somebody who's going to be there for you in real life and that only wants you... not another girl, not some guy... just you
2007-07-17 20:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by What do u want... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! I was hopelessly in love with a guy who turned out to be gay, and then i ended up dating the guy he liked, and now his crush is my best friend! Wow, ironic.
2007-07-17 20:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by Minnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow and I thought my luck with women was bad! Honey I am so sorry! Well, I would just kick back relax and start looking for a new love. Hey there are many good straight men out there that would be good to you and would love you to death. know one says you cant be friends with him however. Hey he may have the same issue you have, you know. He may be in love with a boy that happens to be straight.
2007-07-17 20:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha! I get this alot from friends too and it's completely normal to fall for a gay guy!
Not alot you can do really, except stay friends with him! Gay guys make the best girl friends!! (most of them anyway!)
2007-07-17 20:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by MetroSexual 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OVER IT!!!! If he loves a boy then find a straight man( i.e. me) and get on with your life. This may sound harsh but the same thing happened to me with two girls. It hit me like a brick! I had no idea why or how so i just accepted it and moved on.
2007-07-17 20:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't live without him??? Here's a reality check....you are without him; and I am assuming you are alive. In real life you won't have him....so keep your dreams and fantasies....dream and fantasize a bit more then MOVE ON!!!
2007-07-17 20:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋