i am currently single, but every guy i do attract always want to have a sexual relationship only. i carry myself as a respectful lady, and wonder why im always propositioned for sex. i asked a guy why do you see me as someone just for sexual pleasure only? he said that he didnt know that it was just something about me. Could it just be something im doing or not doing?
2007-07-17 12:55:09 · 18 answers · asked by mz. vee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you just say yes to the wrong guys.
2007-07-17 12:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Cassie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's probably just something about every woman they see! LOL. It's the same everywhere. Men want sex and women want relationships. You are the deciding factor in the equation.
Think about it: If you could eat a chocolate bar without gaining weight or having any ill side effects, wouldn't it be a steady diet? Well, it's the same for some men. If they can get what they want with no strings attached, why not?
Speaking in general terms: If we let them, they'll take what they want and move on. They are looking for that woman who knows what she wants and is content to wait for it. That attracts a real man.
2007-07-17 13:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a married woman, I do think you are really messed up, confused or have been hurt. You are very young and have your whole life ahead of you to make mistakes so why start young and regret it later? Why are you in such a rush to ruin your reputation? The men with the partners that hit on you only wish to use you and if this is how you want to be, then you better get prepared for a life filled with hatred, paranoia and constantly taking precautions. It won't make you a better person.
2016-05-20 22:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have gained yourself a reputation already as being rather easy to get into the sack. This sounds like a very disrespectful way to treat a lady and as such you may need to spend some lonely nights alone in order for people to realize that you are not just a sleeping bag. Best of luck to you.
2007-07-17 13:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're choosing the wrong type of guys. For example, if all you're choosing is "HOT" guys then chances are yeah they probably just want to use you for sex. If that is the case, I'd suggest you open your mind and try to date different types of guys, or find beauty in other men who you don't "usually find attractive". Maybe you'll meet the right guy that way. Otherwise you might just continue along the path you are on now.
2007-07-17 12:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Knowing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem, but stick to trying to find a guy that will want to have a relationship out there. And try to maybe re-evalute the kind of guys that you are going out with. There are nice guys out there that will see you for a person and not a sexual object, its just going to take a little time and patience, but it will be so worth it when you do meet them. Never settle for less.
2007-07-17 12:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You attract the wrong types or probably hangin around the wrong places. Get to know the guy first before actually saying 'YES' to him - play hard'er' to get. Go on a few dates without doing anything with the guy but a peck on the cheek goodnight would do.
2007-07-17 13:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Pröƒé§§ôr♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are like that the no strings attached kinda thing. do you wear revealing clothes? that might be it or it could be that you are just pretty because men always want to bang some beautiful woman. Dont worry not all guys are like htat and youll find one who wants a relationdhip someday/.
2007-07-17 12:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by Aurora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not entirely your fault; guys are pretty deeply programmed to want sex.
Maybe you should find a different group of guys to interact with; that could help.
2007-07-17 12:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible. If you present yourself as a sexual person, those particular guys who are into sex only will be attracted to you.
2007-07-17 13:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you to flirty?being seen as easy?go out and be the one choosing who you want to go out with.dont look for the louder more open guys,look at the talkitive but laid back type.give him alot (but not over done)eye contact.buy him a drink even if its a cola.when you do hook up NEVER sleep with them until you get to know eachother outside of one of your places,and try to make it at least after the 5th date.
2007-07-17 13:03:39 · answer #11 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋