2007-07-17 12:33:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It can be too late. I found out my abusive brother, whom I hated, tried to defend me one time from my also abusive Dad. After he died, his daughter told me.
2007-07-17 13:40:03 · update #1
I apologized. It was not too late to "fix it."
That would indeed be a terrible thing to happen.
I have been wronged by a dear friend.
That person is not in my life anymore. She never apologized. I would have forgiven her had she done so.
This is a great question. It goes to show....think before you speak. Do nothing out of anger. Wait til you calm down.
2007-07-17 12:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by batgirl2good 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I did my mother that way. For nearly thirty years I blamed her for the fact that my little bro and I had to "grow up" in foster care and non functional "adoptive homes". My bro and I lost two other sisters and four brothers. We thought our dad was dead. After all that time I found out that it was NOT her fault at all. She was to be more pittied than all of us kids. My "dad" on the other hand..........guilty! I never got to see my mom again (since 6yrs old) I wish I could have.
2007-07-17 15:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have done thing to other we regret in hindsight.. When possible make amends.. There are times when it's not possible to make amends so we have to learn from the mistake and let it go...
A simple "I'm sorry" backed with honesty goes a long ways.. Learn to say and accept this simple gesture and life rolls along much more smoothly..
2007-07-17 12:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. When I was in high school my friend and I were mean to this not so attractive over-weight girl who thought she was "all that". I always felt bad about making fun of her weight issue. I tried to be really nice to her later but once you've said mean things to someone, even if you apologize, it doesn't erase the words you said.
2007-07-17 15:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's the wonderful thing about Karma, it's never truly too late, maybe too late in this lifetime, but not from the perspective of your eternal soul
2007-07-17 12:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by Taliesin Pen Beirdd 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's never to late to fix it if your alive and the other person is also. All you have to do is go to them and admit your wrong and ask them to forgive you.
2007-07-17 12:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tho it may seem too late, it isn't...honest....and yes I've had that happened, it's not too late...knowing the wrong and not doing it anymore no matter what, is what that individual wants you to see and know,so that your heart lives to do what is right....the closest one can come to changing his/her past is by not doing the tings that you did...it's action from within
2007-07-17 12:43:33 · answer #7 · answered by Indianmaiden 77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too late as in they passed on. Thank God. But, talking was severed.
2007-07-17 12:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did
2007-07-17 12:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by marhama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart will speak to his. Thats all you need to worry about. If your heart has spoken-your forgiven. Put it behind you so you can be a better person today.
2007-07-17 15:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋