I'm seeing someone who is completely into me, no mind games, open communication and trust is slowly but surely growing! Which I will say is GREAT! I don't have to deal with the drama that I'm use to....Now...I'm curious to hear some opinions...do you think that a relationship w/out differences, chanllenges, or ups/downs....is a good one!? Boring?
I've been seeing my guy for about 5 months and not once have we had a dissagreement. We are both very alike! VERY...
opinions!? This is new to me...so just keep an open mind to that.
2007-07-17 11:36:54 · 10 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, for now you two are getting along. In future you'll have your fight, we all go through that. My guy and I got along for approx. 11 months before sh*t hit the fan, and man did it ever!!!! lol. For the most part we get along, but it's how YOU handle the fight and all the stresses afterward. He is new to you, same vice versa. Just enjoy the non-drama as long as you can, b/c it won't be like that forever.
2007-07-18 10:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky I'd be thinking you are. Like yourself my new wife and I have had only three disagreements over the past three years and a bit. So we are averaging approximately one a year. Also like yourself I am not used to this type of relationship as with my ex we argued a lot. But with this woman we each have our own interests and opinions but we respect each other's opinion and have great conversations when we differ in our beliefs. So take the high road and be grateful that you may have found your soul mate. But be ready for when the rough times come (trust me eventually they will) and when they do face them in a mature way and things will work out fine.
2007-07-17 18:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd be a little concerned, if only because I've seen relationships where people keep things inside to avoid problems. I think it's healthy to have some disagreements, as long as they don't get blown out of proportion. I'd just make sure you aren't hiding any important feelings or problems from him, and ask him if there's anything on his mind too. It's very likely that you guys are just really compatible, but it couldn't hurt to make sure there aren't any surprises lurking around the corner.
2007-07-17 18:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a good thing. Its not always bad when you are a lot alike. You should be the one to ask if its boring. If you have been with him for 5 months than i would say you are going to be fine. Just keep things fun and new. do things that you both have never done before. Try to do things you both love doing. i hope i helped good luck
2007-07-17 18:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Meradith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, i'm in the same situation, but make it 1 year and 3 months. It's actually starting to fade for me now, it's just so easy there's no challenges to build the relationship. I mean it's great and no complaints, but i'm 20, I'm supposed to be getting with everything that walks. I say stick it out for as long as you want to, it's a good experience to go through. But sometimes slight problems can help interest in your partner.
2007-07-17 18:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by Steve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with it. Not many people are lucky enough to find someone who is enough like you that you get along that well. Just rememebr to go and have your own life, that way you will still have something to talk about.
2007-07-17 18:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told, you are not ALWAYS going to get along. There will be something that you two argue/diagree about.
If you get along and enjoy each other's company, that is all that matters. Enjoy your relationship!
2007-07-17 18:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me, keep it up:)
2007-07-17 18:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wishing for drama?
2007-07-17 18:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds perfect!!! he is a keeper!!! dont let this one go
2007-07-17 18:40:53 · answer #10 · answered by hoops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋