My bf won't let me take ANY pictures of him, not even of us together.. we've been together 8 months now and i still don't have a single picture of him..
i'm pretty sure this isn't normal?
Anyway he said the only way he'll ever let me get a picture is once i sleep with him. He says once he HAS ME i can do anything I want... but he knows i'm waiting till marriage. And all i want is a simple picture of us..
feedback please!?
2007-07-17 06:48:57 · 10 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH and btw I have no intention of losing myself to him. I just thought it was a little odd and wanted to see if everyone agreed w/ me or no..
2007-07-17 06:58:51 · update #1
You are dating a COMPLETE LOSER who is treating you like a doormat. You can't have a picture of him until you have sex with him? So you'll basically date him for 5 years, then, after you get married you'll have no history from before the wedding?
Take your head out of the sand and dump him for someone who actually respects you. Sounds like all he wants is sex, and what you have to potentially offer is good enough for the wild goose chase. If you give it up for a picture of him, you just reuined the whole experiences and will always regrete it, but it will be a victory for him.
2007-07-17 07:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, let it go, the fact that he can fix his lips to say "only way he'll ever let me get a picture is once i sleep with him" is ridiculous let alone disrespectful. It's a freaking picture! You save yourself until marriage and when the right one comes along he'll be more than happy to take pictures with you or let you take them of him.
2007-07-17 06:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd dump him he is such a pig
and all he wants is in ur pants
so cut him lose
and it's a sad exsuse and there is some one
out there waiting for u
cause they think ur the world
so let that freak lose
and find that mister right
2007-07-17 06:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think its a little rediculous that he wont give you a pic or let you take a pic of him.. I dont think you should give in to him saying he will if you give him yourself- stick by your morals- and if he keeps on i would break up with him- you shouldnt have to give a guy sex for a pic
2007-07-17 06:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by ADNAMA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a very lame excuse. Don't do it for the sake of a picture!
2007-07-17 06:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him. If you want to wait then you can. He is just using this to try and make you have sex. I had a bloke like that before......and I dropped him like a hot stone!!!
2007-07-17 06:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone that will bargain for sex isn't someone you should be with. It tells a lot about him. Which is that he's not worth it. Is he hiding from something? Please move on. This doesn't sound right at all.
2007-07-17 06:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by rencar32002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump him. I think he's just saying that to get in your pants and that makes him a pig.
2007-07-17 06:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jenel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't be like that it sounds to me he just wants to sleep with you and go...you deserve better..End things with him.
2007-07-17 06:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by just a girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he must just want to get some and then dump you, with no evidence to haunt him
2007-07-17 06:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by kittycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋