My girlfriend of 6 years and I have been having some trust issues. About 6 months ago she needed some "help" from a guy I didn't like to get on with a company. She was hiding text messages, and calls, and things like that. We talked it out and was fine.. well now she wants to do a ride along with him..
She did one last week and is doing another one. All I asked of her was not to ride with him, I'm not controlling, I just don't trust the guy. She says she couldn't choose who she rode with, but 2 weeks in a row she's riding with him?? She said its unprofessional to ask not to ride with him
Tonight we made plans, I would get off early and come over. Well I go to her house and she has went to do another ride along without giving me a heads up... until 3 a.m. with this guy.
What do I do? We've talked about it but I dunno anymore.. is she cheating?
2007-07-17 06:40:40 · 9 answers · asked by aa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been told this by others and in my limited experiance it has been true. if you have a feeling she is then its probaly true.
2007-07-17 06:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by jedidiaha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's hiding text messages, phone calls etc. AND she's standing you up, basically, for the other guy. Yes there's a big possibility that she's cheating. No offense but she may be bored in the relationship. You've already talked to her about the situation and they way you feel, and she isn't trying to stop what she's doing, then yes she's cheating and you need to leave her alone.
2007-07-17 13:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Tia08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds very suspicious. I'm sure if she really wanted to she could get out of riding with the guy everytime & only do it occassionally so it seems like she's into it. You need to watch her carefully & look for changes in the way she treats you & behaves around you,etc
2007-07-17 13:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably she is cheating.
Event if she is not, she made plans with you and went on a ride a long with him. That is disrespectful.
If I were you, I would break up with her.
Good Luck.
2007-07-17 13:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dimitar A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well honestly, you can't prove she's cheating just by your suspicions of cheating...
and if you're insecure and she sees it, well, it may not be the best for you anyhow...
so if she is cheating and you do find out about it, well, then too, you'll be the better off without her and her 'free rides'!!
g/l to you , eh?!
2007-07-17 13:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very good chance that she could be cheating. Talk to her about it. Tell her that if she wants to stay with you she needs to stay away from him. Good luck.
2007-07-17 13:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the third time in two weeks you have posted this lame *** post. She doesn't like you anymore and the other guy is now her mount buddy.
Get over it kid!
2007-07-17 13:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
3am....cheating is very possible
but she might be telling the truth
its real hard to know
2007-07-17 13:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by James 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't, she's gonna.
2007-07-17 13:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋