but we feel like they should get a hotel room so that we are not all cramped in our apt. We have no extra rooms and two childrern. Are we wrong?
2007-07-17 06:28:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
They need to stay in a hotel. I see they have little etiquette....good luck!
2007-07-17 06:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Buffet4life 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
not at all. Sounds like you already have your hands full with two kids and an apt. Kindly mention to them that you really dont have the extra room and that they would feel more comfortable in a hotel room near you.
2007-07-17 13:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jen C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just book them a hotel, you may have to pay for it. Try explaining that you just do not have the extra room at your home, better yet let your husband explain it to them, so you are not stepping on any toes. Good Luck and Congrats. One more idea, let them stay at your house and baby sit and you two stay in a hotel. That would be fun.
2007-07-17 13:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by bluebird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i cant believe they arent thinking, i mean hello its your wedding and wedding night and even if you already have kids and live together its still a special and hopefully sex filled night meant for the 2 of you to share not everyone and there momma. maybe someone should remind them about this. or just get them a nice motel room and when they get there say surprise we got you a room so you could be comfortable and not cramped then they will think you were looking out for them
2007-07-17 13:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a Hotel and pay for the night. Just tell tehm, we were worried about you being comfortable so, you can rest in a hotel better than with us.
2007-07-17 13:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by Marquel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not wrong. If you have a full house already, having two others would just be overcrowded.
How many days would it be for? If it is just for one day, I would try to accommodate them. Any longer than that, suggest a hotel nearby.
2007-07-17 13:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not wrong; if you're not comfortable - you're not comfortable. Your fiancé should tell his parents to get a hotel room for a few days.
2007-07-17 13:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they need to stay at a hotel. you shouldn't have to play hostess the morning of your wedding when you are trying to get ready or the night of the wedding when you are trying to enjoy your new husband.
2007-07-17 15:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by not margaret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not wrong. It's your home, and your comfort is important too. Simply (and calmly) explain that you're afraid that everyone will be too crowded in the apartment. Unless you have in-laws like mine, they should understand!
2007-07-17 13:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by I Live To Serve... 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to hurt their feelings you might have to pay for the hotel room yourself.
2007-07-17 13:32:30 · answer #10 · answered by Luv2Answer 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋