Have you ever gotten back with your ex after a long time of not being together.. how did it go.. what made you get back together? .. how long were you apart.? why did you break up in the first place? ... i am in process of doing this.. and am excited about it.. just wondering if it's happened to anyone else..
2007-07-17 06:22:24 · 12 answers · asked by ashjmy5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe i sould explain my story a little.. my ex and i were together for a year.. and we stopped seeing eachother because at the time in our lives.. we weren't ready for a huge commitment.. so we needed to go our seperate ways.. it wasn't because we didn't care about eachother.. or didn't want to be together.. we both just wanted different things at the time.. he wasn't ready for commitment and that's what i wanted.. so i went off got married had a child.. now divorced of a while.. and my ex moved back down here where i live and told me that he's known for about a year he wanted to marry me.. and was ready to be with me.. he just needed time to get things going in his life.. and he wanted to wait for the right time to tell me... so i guess my point is.. we didn't break up because we hated eachother.. just wanted different things.. now we have experienced a lot more and have grown up.. and want to try things.. since we both still love eachother completely.
2007-07-17 06:30:47 · update #1
also.. we have kept in touch ever since we broke up 2 1/2 years ago.. just i guess wanted to wait for the rigth time to talk about things and work them out.
2007-07-17 06:32:15 · update #2
and yes i am aware there is a child involved.. of course i am not going to run of and get remarried again and throw this man into my childs life.. i am a bit smarter then that.. i have already been married once.. and my son only had one daddy.. and even though we might not be together that's still his daddy!! .. so don't think i am doing anything to confuse, or harm my child... i would never do that.
2007-07-17 06:49:57 · update #3
Well, I ALMOST got back with an ex. We were together for a month.. and then like a year and a half later, almost got back together. He said he really regretted the way he was acting and felt very lucky to have had me (I had just ended a long-term relationship after being cheated on). I felt that that was very sweet what he said, and he was willing to change. So I considered it. We went out and had a blast. But later, I realized he didn't really change as he said.... actions speak louder than words. I decided not to be with him again.
You have to realize something. People may SAY they will change... but you really have to observe that yourself. And really figure out the reason you two broke up to begin with. Because that could come back to haunt you and split you two up again. Don't rush into anything, don't have high expectations.... the higher you float, the harder you fall.
2007-07-17 06:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 04:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things have changed a lot since the two of you were together the first time. For one thing, a child is in the picture... and that changes everything , whether two people want to admit it or not.
Good luck, though. Nothing ventured; nothing gained. I just hope you are not disappointed after this period of enchantment wears off.
2007-07-17 06:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my husband and I split up for 7yrs., we seperated mainly just because we felt we wanted different things at that time. While seperated we became best friends all over again, there wasn't anything we couldn't go to the other about. We were both single and decided to see what would happen if we tried again. We've been happily remarried for the last 3yrs. and things are wonderful!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-17 06:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by cosmicalbitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure sure sure. dated one for five powerful years. He not ever desired to listen to approximately my ex's. But they are no longer loopy irrational humans. I went out o my possess.. had my possess peers a few of that have been men. I had my possess lifestyles and he was once very supportive of that. Just the natural matters could make him dissatisfied.. if I danced with a different man.. or if he inspiration I was once spending an excessive amount of time with a different man. I'm a clever outgoing man or woman however he could constantly be afraid could fall into the incorrect arms and do whatever dull. Things like that bought him jealous.
2016-09-05 14:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i went out with this guy then he broke up with me, a year later he called out of nowhere and we started going out again. It lasted 5 years. I don't regret a moment of it either. Good luck to you.
2007-07-17 06:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met my partner when i was 14 we split up and got back together when i was 19 now we are living together and have a daughter and i love him more than ever just do what feels right for you good luck
2007-07-17 06:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because the same problems that were there before will still be there. What's the point?
2007-07-17 06:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea.im with my ex rite now.and things arent working out..just think..
why did u break up in the first place..??
if theres a problem with that answer wut makes u think its gonna be different.
dont go with sumone just to be together..
thats living a lie..
&&
living a lie is just being scared to face the world.
2007-07-17 06:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless the reason you broke up before no longer exists, there is no point in reconnecting.
2007-07-17 06:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋