I am a 20-year-old college student. I live on-campus during the school year, and with my parents during the summer. I am a very light drinker, and am not a very big party person. I'm a good student, and have a full-time internship in the summer. All's good, except I haven't had a date in over three years! I have problems meeting decent girls that don't get drunk and sleep around all the time, since I am not very fond of the party scene... I am a conservative, reserved kind of guy... Yes, I'm a virgin.
Where / how can I meet some new girls during the school year and/or during the summer?
2007-07-17 06:21:56 · 15 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really hate to tell you this and I'm not telling you this to depress you. I'm a conservative, reserved kind of girl but I haven't had a date in over 3 yrs. because of the impact of a divorce! I am 49 so I hardly think it would work out. hahahahha there is no reason why a guy with your qualities has love laziness now get your butt up and leave those low quality girls alone. You have exactly the same problem I have. I am looking for a high quality type of man. If you go to the bar you get bar material. If you date party girls that's all you get is a party. I would suggest you get on the internet and start searching for all the good girls in college. You never know! You have to make yourself available nobody is going to knock on the door and offer themselves. Isn't that part of the mans instinct to hunt? Here is the answer. Go to the local library and get information about community activities and start attending them.
2007-07-17 06:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get some hobbies,join clubs, orginisatins, join a mixed sex sports team or something. the more you get out, the more people you meet, not all girls hang around in bars. also, i dont know what its like in the states, but im in switzerland atm and here, becoming a regular at a cafe or bar is a great way to meet loads of people , obviously your not too keen on bars but maybe find a popular cafe somewhere, and just spend sometime there most days. you will also meet more girls at the internship. just dont be shy, if you see a nice girl, go up to her and talk to her, shes prob just as nervous as you so relax, take it easy.
but theres no hurry, you are young yet, just go with the flow, someone will come along.
2007-07-17 06:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously bars are a very bad place, so dont even consider it. Coffe shops are a 50/50 but most of those girls are on the go type.
Your best luck find a hobby that you enjoy, not pretend to enjoy. So when you meet a girl doing the same thing 1st of all you already have a conversation starter "jackpot" and 2nd of all you have common interest so there will be chemistry already. Good luck
2007-07-17 06:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by ruffianjc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do it at church like everyone will tell you - that is just a cover up - the freakiest people I know go to church every week and think it makes their activities ok. How about a coffee shop or bookstore. seriously - you would be surprised. other than that - alot of people say the internet - but how do you really know what you are getting that way. Ask your friends and co-workers, they might know a few people - or maybe a laid back concert jazz type or something...
2007-07-17 08:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by brandi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want to congratulate you for your courage about saying you're a virgin.Let me tell you it's a good choice...you want get any sorrows about waiting!!I think the church or singles christian meetings will probably the best place (though not every girl from church is a saint),or maybe if you join a club with similar interests (sailing, bowling....something).Good luck and God bless you!
2007-07-17 06:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Rute A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the library, grocery store, your classes, maybe local hangouts (not clubs) near the campus. Good Luck.
2007-07-17 06:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...juzz go out hang out wit ur friends...n wen u c a girl u like approach her n get to know her better.....
u can't juzz go somewhere n try to find a girl...u juzz have to wait n it will come by its self...don worry i've been tryin to find a descent GUY my self...is hard but we have to have patience....
good luck...n u a pretty sweet guy (the way u think)
2007-07-17 06:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by bgirl stacey!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Colleges do have clubs n events to go to... if u wanna try something other than church
2007-07-17 06:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sick of F*ckwits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the good girls are at the local Popeye's Chicken!
2007-07-17 06:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by durrell r 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Try in your classes, or around campus.
2007-07-17 06:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Twinkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋