There's this guy i like ... i really like, but he doesnt no i even exist. any suggestions on what to do??? cheers x
2007-07-17 06:19:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-07-17 06:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by zoeksalamander 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
well communications is the key, some how u need a break through-make sure he is worth the rest of your life or best that he doesnt know you exist. Try smiling and asking him to help you with something, and then let him know you would like to help him too. and stay away from bad movies especially making one of your own=yet there are some that get hurt by their guy or their past and go the other way which is the worst thing that one could do=Well if u truely love him why not make it real and get married?
or the option for some is to get paid for what they do-yet it is sad either way=
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I feel sorry for their choices-Lust with or without money paid is a dead end without a future if true love and commitment to marriage isnt in there.
"The love of money is the root of all evil" the Bible-not the money but loving it more than doing what is right before God.
would you desire your future husband and children to have people pointing you out -with a bad reputation for having shacked up with this and that guy?
I rededicate each part of my body to the Lord each day and pray not to let anyone or thing take my peace and joy away--and there is a song -be careful little eyes what you see, for the father up above is looking down with love, so be careful little eyes what you see
in Jesus amazing grace that saved me=John 3 repented from sins, asked Jesus in to help me and be my friend, amen Revelation 3:19&20
I think she was about 20 her name was Andrea or something like that maybe shorter
I guess i wrote all this to forget a new girl I met a pure Cinderella- today that is an honorable one-with a dear heart-yet I dont got a clue what tomorrow will bring.
Excellent answer. Upon further thinking i dont feel sorry for them really but some are really in need of help and need the lord like you said. they defile their bodies and will inevitably regret what they're doing.
prayin for you to make the best choice, David in Jesus amazing grace
2007-07-17 13:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that you DO actually exist? Existence is important in any kind of relationship. Marty McFly spent the whole of the Back To The Future documentary trying to stay in existence - he eventually did it after nearly getting it on with his mum, setting her up with his dad, knocking out the school bully and playing Johnny B Goode at the school prom. I don't recommend going to these lengths though! Flux Capacitors are hard to come by. You could try speaking to him?
2007-07-17 13:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by Wulfruna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First tell him you exist. Then tell him how you feel.
Ignore the suggestions that you play games acting like an idiot or throwing out crazy hints or signs. Just talk to the guy. Communicate with him.
2007-07-17 13:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make casual conversation. Don't ever think he will be outta your league. If you aren't friends w/ him right now, take your own time to get there. Then after a while, tell him how you feel. (Who knows, maybe he'll tell you 1st) anyway, when u end up telling him you like him, be confident about it. Don't expect the reaction you want though. You know guys, they don't always feel the same way.
2007-07-17 13:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Strider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing you can do... and im not trying to be sexist or anything... is to dress in your cutest outfit and just introduce yourself to him. guys really don't like games. just introduce yourself and try to make a conversation. Guys love a confident woman. be confident but not overly confident. but while you are conversing with him make an excuse on why you have to leave the conversation. this presents the perfect opportunity to see if he is interested or not. guys are suckers for always wanting more. and this is a good time to give him your phone number. and make sure you turn your head back around to wave goodbye. it gets us everytime.
2007-07-17 13:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm.... well try talking to him, finding out what types of things he likes, and start to meet his friends. If he's a jock, go to a game and cheer him on with a hand made sign. Just be friendly!!
2007-07-17 13:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by *Manda♥* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either approach him and ask him out, or forget him and find some other guy who DOES know you exist. Those are pretty much your options, short of just flashing the guy.
2007-07-17 13:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awrr thats was the exact same situation with my bestmate.,, Well first of all keep going past him get his msn and tell him bout u and just alk and hopefully at school hell be like ohh its yoou" then hell hopefully give u a hug or sumat :]well thaats what happneed to my bestmate nway
2007-07-17 13:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by Chibi.Jan-x0 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him. Make him no you exsist!! demand his attention. Lifes to short for you to just sit there and do nothing.
If your the shy type of girl though then ask a friend who is confident to go and talk to him. you never no. maybe he wants you to make the first move.
2007-07-17 13:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia16125 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, i really like this guy too. The way I got him to notice me was by being lucky and just being myself. I was lucky that i got to sit next to him a lot, and being myself made me feel better and more noticed so, now we are like best friends. :]
2007-07-17 13:27:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋