Why do women hates players ? why should you hate players ?

Question

Ok this is theraphy for me, so if you dont like long questions please do move on to the next question,im not exactly looking for an answer but im letting whatever my frustration go in a constructive way

I never understood why women hate players ? why do i wanna know ? becuase im trying my very best not to be one, all of my experiance pushes me towards that, no im not looking for someone to take it out on but i need to look for my love, yup, I dont know what women wants these days,seriously i dont get it, am i just another guy in their life? why do i feel such a let down when they do this ? I love a person the way they are, I didnt try to change them and all they have done to me is give me heartache`s,,yup i know some of you ladies gonna ask me to MAN UP,then whats the point wanting your man to be sensitive ? why do women make a man sensitive to her wants but not to his own feelings ? isnt that selfish ? why does it have to be contradicting between men and women

Yup, now i understand, women allways wants things to go according to their own wants,,, yup and making a man sensitive for her yes, sensitive when she is emotional,sensitive when she has a bad day,sensitive when she has her periods,sensitive when she has a bad past,sensitive when she has a fight in her workplace,sensitive of her ticking``biological clock``,sensitive when her parents are having a bad time,sensitive when she is low on cash,sensitive to her friends,sensitive when she makes a mistake and covers it up,sensitive when she is tired,sensitive when she says she is doing it for the well being of the relationship. sensitive when she says``no``. sensitive to all her heartache`s and her stories. well i do understand this all,yup i do and i dont need any women changing me for it, its my make up, its any mans make up. my question is why cant a man be sensitive towards his own emotions in a relationship? why do women wants men to be like this when she cannot handle it ?isnt it selfish?

Yup it is selfish, so f&*k you women who thinks i dont have the right to tell my own feelings, the only person who have to change is you if you think a man doesnt have the right to whine about his own feelings, and stop being selfish!, I am a man, and you know why ? its because i do acknowledge that i have emotions, its the very thing so many guys try to protect, yup with the so called male ego, i understand it now, because if i were to be open about emotions to a women she might think im soft or worse miss use this, yup,thats why so many men prefer not to be in touch with their feelings, its women who makes them this way, yup from the day they born, the mothers who brought them up,the years dealing with puberty,the first love who hurt them, the experiance, yup all this,, there is simply no room for a man who keeps in touch with this sensitive side in this world, yup thats a truth! and guess what if a man were like that then the ladies label this guys unsuitable for them?

yes i made a mistake in the past being sensitive towards what a women wants,, yup its a mistake allrite, wanna know why ? because some women miss use this for their own agenda, to cover her mistakes,to make me fall for their own way of guy, yup to ``mold`` their guys according to what they expect in their own relationship, yup it did drown me! I forgot yup i forgot that my very existance in the world is to regulate life itself,my life and the life around me, I have to be a man, yes i have to, i cant go on changing myself on what the ladies want from me, im not your slave, this is the order of nature, as a man i cant let emotion let control my outlook in life, if that happens then i cannot be a good lover, husband,father,companion,friend,provider,son,friend,worker,a leader,a revolutionist... There is a reason why women need man to be like this, its because we balance you and women balance us, there is no point in having two women in a relationship,yup i got that now, yup i got it !

Hmm,, if you are a women, ask yourself this, does equality really exist in the world ? well i try to be equal but i got burned real bad,,i understand this all to well now, equality is a responsibilty of a women towards her ownself, her outlook on life, her duties to nature, its not something that has been brought upon by men, i dont recall myself putting down any women in my life, how could i be a burden to a womens equality ? do you think its all equal for men in relationships and others ? Why dont women try to understand a mans duty instead of bit*hing about every single thing there is to a mans downside,,, women has plenty of this downside to them but if a man were to point it out then he is an as*hole but its fine for a women to do that because she is fighting for her right,,, equality my foot! why is there an expectation towards what a gal wants from men and if a man asks of the very same thing then he is pushing her ? equality my foot! no seriously think about it !

If you are still here by now, why dont you try another few of this questions if you beleive that guys has it easy in life,,
why is it that when a women moves on to another relationship then she is making her choice and when a man does it then he is cheating ?
why is it that when a guys tells the women something that is good for her own life then its considered as pushing her and when a women does it its called molding him ?
why is it that a man should accept the women as she is and the man shouldnt accept who he is and change to her wants ?
why is that ``past is past`` for the women and the women get to dig for the guys past ?
why is that its ok for a women to move on without thinking about the guys feelings but its not ok for the men to move without thinking about the women ?
why is there such an expectation for men from women but a guy shouldnt have any expectations ? try seaching for what women wants and you can see what i mean,, its not the other way around

why is it its ok for women to say `no` to sex but if a guy says that then he is not a man or he doesnt appreciate you ?
why is it that no matter how much money women makes its allways that a guy that have to come out with the biggest share on bills ?
why is that when a women goes for an older guy its normal but if a older guy goes for a younger women then he is a pervert ?
how come is that women watches porn,enjoys it, and when her own man does it then he is a pervert ? double standard ? yeah i know about the porn books, that included
how come its ok for women to sleep around and find her perfect mate and be considered her past and when a guy does that then he is a player ?
how come its allways the guys mistake in a marriage if a divorce happens and the women ends up with more then half of his belongings,
how come its ok for a women to bring in a guy to a therapist but when a husband asks for it then it is presumed he doesnt love her anymore ?

How come its ok for a women to mold men to be father, lover, companion, teacher but its not ok for a man to mold her to become a mother, a lover, a wife and so on ?
How come sex is used as a leverage ? when it should be a equal thing for both sexes?
How come its ok for a women to contradict their own sayings becuase of their need of that particular time but its not ok for guys to contradict their say ?
How come its allways guys that must and must and must understand a womens feelings but it takes a guy to make it understand to a women about his ?
How come its ok for a women to dress up all she wants but a guy who wears a ear stud or earrings are considered a no in a relationship ? equality my foot !
How come its ok for a women to brush of any advances from a guy then its ok but if a guy were to do that then he doesnt apreciate you, he is a gay, or all that bla bla bla ?
how come a women who says men should be sensitive teaches her boy not to cry ?

How come a women who talked about being honest to her overseas boyfriend is kisssing another guy in the back of the carpark ? good thing she didnt see me
how come its allways the guy to be blamed for not knowing how to fix a car or a bulb but its ok if the women doesnt how to cook ? equality my foot!
how come its ok for women to generalize men into certain category but its not ok for a man generalize women into certain category?
How come a women can belittle prostitute`s, porn stars, and lap dancers without understanding they are doing it for a living but its ok for her to be slu*ting around? double standard ?
How come everytime i say someone is beautifull to my lady collugue`s then all that comes out of their mouth is how she is a b*tch, how she did that and this, and yet again its the women who asks men to respect ladies ?
How come women dont understand that it takes herself to respect herself before anyone else instead of pinning every guy as an as*hole ?

well i will answer all of those for you,,,, its NATURE, ITS WOMENS NATURE,,, am i being angry about it ? NO and you know why because now yes only now i realise i have to shape myself around this,,,,I cannot be too much sensitive to a womens feelings because it would set the whole thing of,,yup for her own good and mine,, if i were to be too sensitive to her then i end up being the punch bag,she wont respect me and at the end, i end up being nothing to her, not a person she will respect, a lof ladies have the tendency to do this,,,yup im changing my ways right at this moment, because i dont see myself going anywhere by shaping myself towards what she wants,, that is not real,,, i should share my life,knowledge,love,understanding to a lady, not becoming her tool for her own emotional self conforming tool,,, women are humans too,,i am a human before man, so the rules are simple, equal, or at least try to be equal, if you are women enough try this for a change and see how it works

I know im gonna get a lot of answers from the ladies saying im such a women and stuff, well just one word for you,, F&*k you and your thoughts, im not slave, i was not born to fit into your own generalization of men,,, and if you want men to treat you nice and have nice thoughts about you then be a women no no be a human being and do the same thing,,, nature is not gonna give you something special without you respecting it,,, you think you can go against nature about this law ? ha ha ha try you best and you will see that nature will keep sending you men to balance you out until you learn the lesson,,,, as for me i from now on will treat a women as a women without falling into other ppl`s idea on how a men should be,, im here to balance women and they are here to balance me and i will respect and love any women who respects how i feel,,,yup that is the one real lady that i can look up too,,no she doesnt have to be perfect or with 36d on her but her value`s is the one i will love in her

From now on, no more mr im gonna be all you want. Im gonna be me yes me, either take me as i am, or just go off. This is the last time im gonna talk about this,,,yup,,,im gonna treat women in every equal way possible,,im not gonna be the one who gonna be thinking about how sex will affect you,, its the women who needs to take this to their own plate and really deal with their own feelings instead of pinning of everyman as a player if it doesnt work out,,,, if a women doesnt respect herself then no one will,, dont tell a guy is a player just because you wanna feel good about sleeping with him and the whole experiance,,,,next time please lower your expectations and look around somewhere close, the best friend you got might be the best guy for you because he understands you,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, See its the women who shapes the guys to be how they are now,, im a nice guy,,,and i got shaped by women,,yes im letting my experiance change me,and its for the good!

Honest to my very core, I am changing because of women,,maybe the reason im still writting this because i wanna beleive that everything is perfect according the gender generalization,,,,yup so do you think a player doesnt have feelings ? so you think a player is there just to hurt ? bear in mind its this players that makes you understand men,,,ha ha ha ok i just wish i will find that one women, who respects me, appreciates me, my thoughts, my feelings, and what am i doing right to change according to her dreams as well,,, see its still about her ? yup men are born for women, i have no ego to say that,,,,,,,,,and see how you hate it when men have a sensitive side? ask yourself this, do you still want men to be sensitive ? ask yourself again do you want men to be sensitive ? if you still do would you be sensitive enough to understand his needs instead of having your ``women ego`` to defend what you think is right ? Do you think players are jerks ?im not! im a nice guy who understands!

take a real look at the answers,,,,,, you see how they hate a sensitive guy now ? its all about them,,,,thats why im gonna keep on playing until i meet a women who is open enough to realise what a man wants in a relationship!

If you are a guy reading this, never ever be sensitive! they want men to be sensitive but never acknowledge that we have a heart too ,,,, its totally selfish, and they blame the guy for being this way!!! its nature,, yup and im gonna follow its way

Ok ,,, this is it, the last day i am ever gonna let out how i feel,,,,its a simple rule,

Man has a heart too
its about equality and dont expect me to be perfect if you are not! so there it is ,,thank you everyone for reading

Answer 1

It's just that we can't get any sense of security from players. And well, not every woman thinks the way you think we do.

Answer 2

Well from what I heard, there are some males who just dont know how to express their feelings or choose not to. All the guys I know just respect women and thats why they get respect back. You basically took all this out on females which is a mistake. This is your problem not ours, and if all the women that you were involved with are like this, then its just how women are. Your saying that women shouldnt change YOU but your the one who wants to change US. I'm pretty sure that if you ask your girlfriend or wife or whatever to talk so you can let this all out, she would let you. But this is kinda harsh and insulting. Your basically being a little sexist right now. You said that your not gonna take it out on anyone, but your taking it out on females in general. No one is made perfect, you know, you included. Maybe you should see a phsychiatrist so you can talk to him/her and get a proffesional perspective on this. Im only 16 and if your question bugged me this much, imagine how much it will bug grown up women. Oh yah let me rephrase your question: Why WOULD women like players? They just mess with our feelings. They use us as a tissue and blow they're nose in us and then throw the tissue away.

Answer 3

okay. girls hate it when guys are cocky. if you are a player most likely you are cocky and think you are the best. sometimes girls just get sick of that confidence and lean towards the shy guys or the more sensitive ones. not too sensative b/c that gets really annoying really fast. okay so in conclusion, you really just need to act like the guy next door. like the funny type that everyone loves and trust me i fall for the funnny ones 12 out of 10 times!! the more the funny and nice the person is the more the person is cute. yea women are really selfish and really know what they want....but thats the way it is. good luck in your search!!

Answer 4

Well I can't answer for all women, but I do not like players. Once I find out a guy is one, I'll stop dating him. The reason is simple: Date a player and you get played. Duh. Why would any sane person want to open up their heart to that b.s.? Maybe you need to just go find a female version of you if you wanna play games.

F.Y.I. Maybe it's your mouth that's keeping you from finding "The One". Just a thought. :)

Answer 5

No such factor as gamers simply foolish guys who dont understand how to dedicate to at least one ladies. I dont hate 'gamers' simply dont have time for them as they suppose being with over forty ladies is some thing to aspire to. At the tip of the day you are going to grow to be by myself as you are going to suppose the ought to maintain telling humans you will have been with forty ladies and no self respecting ladies will wish you.

Answer 6

Some women see relationships as major emotional attachments. To be honest, players do suck because no one should have their feelings toyed with and manipulated.

Answer 7

You are putting too much energy it what you want to find and not enough in what you need. Become happy with your self and you will find the happiness you seek

Answer 8

okay that was pretty llong but,a woman wants to hear wat a woman want to hear like she is beauitful,all those kind of stuff.she wants u to be sweet.love her the way she is.that she u eveything.woman hate playa becuz she wants that one guy to love her the way she is not to look at others just her do eveything 4 her.love her,talk to her,be sweet.

Answer 9

women don't like players because the dont wanna be played....bk

Answer 10

it depends on their blood type