there’s this really good looking girl I am going out with and she’s got an amazing personality, we talk a lot, whether its on the phone or msn. At the moment everything is perfect but I’m afraid if we see each other too much. What scares me is our relationship might get boring because we see each other and talk a lot. Will that happen?
2007-07-17 05:44:57 · 31 answers · asked by *Catalan Boy* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Recently I’ve been ignoring her calls because I don’t want her to go off me.
2007-07-17 05:53:37 · update #1
One definition of a good relationship is when you CAN spend a lot of time together (or talking etc) , EVEN when it's boring - without being "bored sick" of each other...
Things WILL get boring sometimes ( that's life and that's normal) -but hopefully you will still like to be in each other's company ... (and that's a sweet thing, btw)
(Of course, if this is a "high-maintenance" girl- then you better always have something planned so things DON't get boring. Then you need to become an "entertainer." If that is the case- good luck! :)
One last important piece of advice if you don't mind -(and this is for the girl too ) please do NOT drive yourself crazy worrying about the "boring" times...
Assuming you two really like each other 'boring' times only make the good ones better, 'boring' times are often perfect for getting closer, and 'boring' times really are part of a healthy relationship..
I hope I haven't bored you :)
take it easy (and read all the posts, there are some good ideas there)
2007-07-17 06:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by 2bornot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky to have her as a friend. Remember that relationship is at times tried with some misunderstandings. When this happen, I hope you can talk it out smoothly with one another so that each one will come to an understanding. There is no growth without a single hardship. Trust in your good self and in her will keep you going. The presence of love will not give room for boredom.
2007-07-17 05:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Binnus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really up to you. I've been in a relationship with a man for three years now, we spent only 3 months dating and seeing each other nearly every day before we moved in together and we've been living together engaged ever since. It only gets boring if you don't take the time to make sure it doesn't.
If you put in the time and effort, your relationship will never get boring.
2007-07-17 05:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might I had the same problem. What you should do is stop talking to her as much, do talk to her don't ignore her but make her miss you if you know what I mean. Girls can be that way, so don't hang out with her everyday and talk to her but not too much. It might not get boring, depends on the person, so best of luck!
2007-07-17 05:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by Foryou42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my fiance spend every second we can together, we miss each other so much when we go to work. thats the only time we spend apart, we even work together though! we have always been like this since we 1st got together.
your girlfriend won't be getting bored with you if she keeps phoning you. though, she will get bored with you or very confused if you stop answering her calls! talk 2 her, discuss these things with her! you obviously have a good relationship, you should be able to talk to your partner about pretty much anything.
2007-07-17 06:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by #1 due 06/07/2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually one day it "may" get boring, but life and relationships are what you make them, it'll only become boring if you let it.
inevitably it will one day be less exciting as once you get to know someone all the things that are a novelty to begin with suddenly become mundane and not as interesting.
but if you are completely made for each other, a match made in heaven, then it could be interesting FOREVER!
Whatever happens, keep on smiling and let this special person know how great they are. tell them on a daily basis that they mean a lot to you and that you enjoy their company!
:D x
2007-07-17 05:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Tickle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nearly every relationship gets boring,
When you get married to a person you see them a lot more, and a lot of people get bored with each other from
time to time. Nothing is straight forward in this world. You will just have to see what happens.
What if she asks why you fail to answer her calls????????
2007-07-17 09:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship has to get past the initial excitement and 'getting to know' phase.
Whether or not it gets 'boring' is up to you. You may find it gets more interesting or you may find out you have less in common than you thought. Either way hang in there and decide for yourself where you want it to go.
2007-07-17 05:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Plato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually you will get to know everything about her. And eventually you will get really comfortable with her. That is when things will get boring, but they will also be very fulfilling. The cool thing about it is you can explore new stuff together instead of looking for new things in each other.
2007-07-17 05:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyones relationships get boring sooner or later! Sorry but it happens to everyone!
You just have to find other things to do and to talk about to make it interesting again! :-) Dont worry! There is always something you can do to spice things up! And if you worry about it then you'll make it borin!
2007-07-17 05:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋