i knew this guy since, few days thru online.We both reside at different places.Me (delhi) and the guy at blore.He calls me
up all the time and talks for hours together.He said he loves
me and want to lead a life with me .He will not marry anyone
else in his life and would die if i don't talk to him.He sheds
tears like a small child and i scolded him very badly to stop
this non-sense and follow his way and his response is,he
begs me not to do that. He doesn't bother if i scold or use
bad words to confront him.I can never think of him in such way and i told him i don't like him but still he says he loves me.Why is he acting like this?.
2007-07-17 05:29:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Scary.. He sounds a little bit emotionally unstable.. It kind of seems like he may be getting obsessed with you.. If I were you, I would cut off contact with him for your own safety.. This doesn't sound very healthy.
2007-07-17 05:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by All you need is love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very obvious to me that he is acting out his childhood wounds. They have nothing to do with the reality of today but are all behaviors he learned as a small child by the way his parents treated him and the messages they gave him about himself and love. He needs help to grow and change his behavior and beliefs about love, himself and relationships.
Why do you allow him to keep calling you? I would tell him never to call me again no matterwhat he says.
2007-07-17 12:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by KathyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the more important question is, "Why are you putting up with this nonsense?"
He is far away. He lives in fantasies. He probably does not have a job. He is wasting your time.
The score is now Cutie-7, Loser-0.
Drop him like a hot rock.
2007-07-17 12:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because hes desperate, he doesn't know when he can find another girl will talk to him. This is especially true because hes scared of approaching girls in real life. Hence his wanting for an E-relationship
2007-07-17 12:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Haikin L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he just a guy off the internet!
and u shouldnt meet him i mean look he after u hand and foot! i think u should change ur number and get a new e-mail addd if u dont want to talk to him!
2007-07-17 12:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Gabrielle.A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a desperate internet geek who can't get a girl any other way. Change your phone number and find another guy.
2007-07-17 12:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is crazy! Stop talking to him immediately. Block him from everything. There are a lot of dangerous people on the Internet and it looks like you found one of them! I can't explain why people act like they do. Just please be more careful when you talk to people online.
2007-07-17 12:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by mageta8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like dude is looking for a mother type of person then a girlfriend tell him to buzz off and dont talk to him anymore
2007-07-17 12:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's absolutely obsessed and paranoid with you.. maybe he doesn't have girls to be with and he's afraid to grow old with no one.
2007-07-17 12:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by louie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a friggin stalker...
end it with him now ^^
2007-07-17 12:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by monty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋