2007-07-17 03:50:33 · 11 answers · asked by Pegeen 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I don't know what you mean exactly, but if pertaining to any solution...what other choice is there? What we want in life; be it happiness, material possessions or love we can never acheive or attain it unless we try. Life seldom gives us what we want or need so we have to fight for it.
Sometimes it feels like we are getting no where, and sometimes it feels like when we do get what we want life takes it away; but the only way to find---well, whatever it is your after, is to keep trying.
So, I say yes, keep trying. You're only truly helpless if you give up.
2007-07-17 04:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by AD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Following your feelings is not the way out of your destructive cycle. In fact it will be reinforcing your helplessness. Your feelings only tell you about your past not the way forward. Find somebody you trust who you can talk to about why you feel so helpless and find a way forward. Look to books that inspire from others that have found their way forward. Your future can be very different from your past when new understandings restore hope.
2007-07-17 04:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kirsty V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are worth more than you think, i bet there are some many people who care about you. even though you don't think they do. Feeling helpless is a state of mind like boredom. So try to apply urself, like go for a walk or if u have kids spend time w/ them or watch America's Funniest
2007-07-17 03:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pet. I know that sounds weird, but caring for a pet can actually help you feel like you have a purpose to keep living. Pets also love you unconditionally. It's amazing.
If you can't get a pet, try...and I know its hard, but really try to confide in family or a close friend. They'll show you that they love you and that you serve a purpose in their life.
2007-07-17 04:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by dog n' boots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply because while you're alive, there's hope.
the reason why we are still alive is to continue what right things we've started and correcting the wrongs we've done.
if you feel everything has gone wrong in your life, don't lose hope... just as sure as the sun rises in the morning, so is a hope of a new tomorrow where you can face the past and look forward to a new, brighter future.
2007-07-17 03:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by manang notita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trying what and why do you feel helpless. sounds like a depression problem to me
2007-07-17 03:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by pugs5678 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel the same way all the time. I know it's hard, but you have to build a support system of family, friends, therapists, etc. It'll get better.
2007-07-17 03:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have to! Nobody ever said it would be easy, just keep tredging on. It's hard sometimes, I know, been there done that, it will get better, I promise!!! Just keep thinking " This too shall pass". : )
2007-07-17 04:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by summergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE IF YOUR WILL TO SUCEED IS GREAT ENOUGH YOU CAN NOT FAIL.
THE WORLD IS FILLED WITH GREAT STORIES OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE OVER COME GREAT TRADGEDYS
AND COME UP WINNERS.
YOU NEVER TRULEY LOSE OR FAIL TILL YOU QUIT.
AND REMEMBER WHAT EVER HAPPENS GOD LOVES YOU.
2007-07-17 04:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's what you are here for, get off the self pity pot.
2007-07-17 03:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋