My sister is 15 and she has moved out and now lives with her 22 yr old boyfriend. Keep in mind that this is Holland so Im not sure if this is against the law, but anyways, what do you think of this?
2007-07-17 02:24:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, very weird....and very wrong.
2007-07-17 02:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kim W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes thats very wierd. I mean at the age of 15 she cant be mature enough to live on her own or with someone else especially an older male. Honestly Id say shes being manipulated by an older guy, if it were my sister i wouldnt allow it. If hes 22 and he cant find a female his own age then he also has a problem (nothing against your sister) but just being honest. I dont know about holland, but in the Us he would be on his way to jail. But like i said it doesnt take anything to be grown and 22 yrs old and manipulate a young tennage girl.....you should intervene...
2007-07-17 09:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by ibm_4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even in Holland she is still a child and he is a grown adult. Now I am not sure about the laws there, I did a bit of searching and didnt really find much.
Frankly this is sick. While she thinks she is all grown up (most 15 year olds do) he knows better than this and knows she is still a child. While Euopean laws are often a bit looser with the age limits that the US, I would be willing to bet that this is still illegal there.
Is the situation with your parents okay?
Is she in school?
2007-07-17 09:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why yes, yes it is. When your 22 your shouldn't date anyone under 18 MAYBE 17. I just see how it would be fun to date some one that young who hasn't experienced much of anything yet. So in Holland are they allowed to go to bars together?
2007-07-17 13:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. thats not acceptable. and no one respond with that "age is just a number" bullshit, cause i agree. BUT she is 15. if its "meant to be" they can wait. that 22 yr old needs help - and someone to keep an eye on him around ur sister. young girls are so vunerable. and 22 yr old guys ... come on now ....
2007-07-17 09:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by snuggler 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is so agaisnt the law.At least it should be in any city/state.The 22 yr old should have known better,she could've been his sister,it's considered rape.I'm 22,I would never in my wildest dreams date a guy who is 15 yrs old,that's sick,she's not even legal.
2007-07-17 09:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by teddy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anymore I am sure that the only thing you can be sure of is that nothing is sure. I would view what is going on as a negative situation with the information presented but I am usually wrong so pay no attention to me.
2007-07-17 09:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is weird....i knew someone who was 14 and dated a 21 year old..same age difference...and that was a drama filled illegal relationship!!! but i dont know the laws in holland but it still seems wrong
2007-07-17 09:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not very weird but strange and possibly against the law. are they both in there right senses? why exactly did your sis move out is it just being rebellious or there is more to this than people know?
2007-07-17 09:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its stupid for a 22 year old to date anyone under 18.
2007-07-17 09:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm from Holland and I think this is toooo much age difference. Not normal!!!!!
2007-07-17 09:30:59 · answer #11 · answered by Sylvie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋