do you judge your present or future relationships on past relationship experiences?
and why or why not?
2007-07-17 02:08:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how do explain this?
well people learn from their mistakes but i wouldnt prejudge people based on my previous experiences if thats what you mean ,i did it before but i realised that every 2 people are way different even if they look and act the same when you firstr meet them .
on the other hand, some people act the same and they have the same personality .
its just a hunch i dont know how to explain it to you but i ll give you mu advice that im working on theses days:
Always double check people because you ll never know who you re losing if you dont.
good luck .
2007-07-17 02:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Maroun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one does to a certain degree whether they want to admit it or not. When you consider past relationships it's best to think of the attributes that person had that you liked when looking for a new partner. Never focus on the negative aspects of any relationship and remember just because one person hurt you doesn't mean the next on will. You will miss out on so much life has to offer if you do this. Don't be afraid to open yourself and let others in.
2007-07-17 02:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, each person is different, and each day is different. I've been really hurt in the past. If I went on that basis, I'd never be in another relationship, but here I am, engaged with 2 kids, and having been together for 5 years.
Be grateful each day is a blank slate.
2007-07-17 02:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by chaoss13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a big no... I think every relationship is different from the other.. I always think about the good memories it has given me or it will give me.. so never judge..
2007-07-17 11:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Redfox06012007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was married to my highschool sweetheart for 14 years. We went out for 6 years before getting married. The marriage started out good, but eventually, went bad, without me noticing. Sounds stupid, but I learned a lot from it.
I am now in a serious relationship, and constantly compare (not out loud, though) the two. I don't plan on making the same mistakes this time around. I think that part of any normal adult's behavior is learning from his/her mistakes. If you don't learn from them, you are destined to make the same mistakes again.
2007-07-17 07:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Yvonne F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women do, but it is a bad policy. You should judge every one on their own merits
Judge is the wrong word here, but I can't think of the right one
2007-07-17 02:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because all my past relationships ended with me getting hurt so i judge it by how happy i am everytime i see them
2007-07-17 08:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by King Leonidus! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no b/c if the last one faild how do you know for certain that a future relationship is going to work.
2007-07-17 02:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes coz if the past one was good u try to make this one good to.
2007-07-17 04:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by tony s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think most people try not to, but experience makes us who we are and what we think so I think it kind of creeps in whether we want it to or not
2007-07-17 02:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by just me #1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋