...did not attend your wedding, did not give you a gift, and said that he/she didn't like weddings, would you kick them to the curb forever?
2007-07-17 01:55:27 · 12 answers · asked by danashelchan 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No. My best friend didn't come to my wedding, but we still talk.
2007-07-17 02:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, people don't HAVE to come, you send out an invite, not an order. Not everyone loves weddings and goes all girly and romantic at the thought of them, for a lot of people they are an uncomfortable place to be. It would make you more of a friend if you didn't place such high importance on one day of your life, and took into account the many times your friend has been there for you. Also, no one is obliged to buy a gift, perhaps she cannot afford anything right now?
2007-07-17 09:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
They are my friend. Just because they do not like weddings and do not want to attend my wedding or give me a gift does not mean they are not my friend.
2007-07-17 13:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not everyone likes to attend weddings, and perhaps he/she was broke and couldn't afford a gift.
2007-07-17 09:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by greeneyes_bjb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they did not attend BECAUSE they dont like weddings, then yes.
If they did not attend because they couldnt AND they happen to just not like weddings, then no.
The gift doesnt matter.
2007-07-17 09:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends how long have you known them have they been to other weddings and they are just saying it about yours and just because you invite someone does not require them to bring a gift whether they go or not!!!! they may be a good friend otherwise
2007-07-17 09:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by Catherine A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, he or she may have had some other reason to not attend or send you a gift that may have been embarassing or something. Like being broke.
2007-07-17 10:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Allison L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the circumstances. Getting a gift from them is NOT a deal breaker.
2007-07-17 10:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not the way you are thinking, but it would show me the type of friend they are. The friendship would mostly like just fade away, because there would be little effort on my part to keep this type of relationship.
2007-07-17 09:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by no_frills 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, the question is what sort of a friend are you if you have trouble accepting his/her wishes? especially when that person has made it clear that it's not personal but he/she just dislikes weddings...
2007-07-17 09:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by kaiwan58 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋