Its not fair, they put on a face, expect you to be perfect, and you being a nice guy go thru every single of her pain because you love her regardless of the past only to find that she used you as an emotional support and at the end leaves you telling you are an idiot because you tried to change to for her well being ? would you go for this kinda party gals again or do you need the real thing allready ?
2007-07-17 01:48:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see how women wants a man to be sensitive but they are not sensitive to a mans heart ache ?? fat chance no more mr nice guy, like svetlina said, need to man up allready right ? yup im an idiot trying to be sensitve and all,
2007-07-17 01:54:56 · update #1
i don,t mind i just let them carry on get it of there chest
2007-07-17 01:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're just hanging around the wrong women. I've never had this happen to me. Ever. Face it. You're never going to find a brand new Porsche at the used car lot in the bad part of town. From what you say here, you really did know what you were getting, but a marble is not a precious jewel. That doesn't mean there are not precious jewels out there, though. You just need to know what you are looking for and where to look. Good luck!
2007-07-17 01:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love someone regardless of the past or her attitude,its simply that you are grown up and matured enough to understand.the gravity of the situation,what i feel,they are people in this world who are poles apart different as to what they carry themselves socially,and life treats you with great threats and disappointments during its course,and to consider a girl from her past involvements or relations makes no sense to call her that she's using you,Hey Man! truth can be really very different of which you can never analyse thinking radically,so just gaze thru her eyes and follow your soul and the vibes you perceive,Life can be really beautiful. You live for present and make your future vulnerable if really get your love,and for that to happen its simply both ways traffic so don't analyse on what has been there in the past for you both have the zeal to make the relationship happen practically.
2007-07-18 01:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by abcde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I think most of us guys simply want to be with someone of seemingly high values and respectability. If you look fabulous while you're creating all the great wonderfulness of a relationship?....well all the better. Anyone who expects perfection and satisfaction should know that it doesn't all come to you in bunches really. It will come to you in highly invigorating satisfying moments though....if only you'd let it just simply unfold before your own very eyes. No one comes to you with a set of instructions on how they want to be treated. You'd have to tell someone what you want intrigueingly for them to even begin to imagine on what and how they need or desire to go about pleasing you reasonably. Ask for what you want ladies....and then pray to God you are with an open minded man that willingly wants to give these things to you unconditionally. If you design a wall of frustration and confusion in the middle of it all for everyone?.....don't expect that a man will be able to read your mind easily otherwise. Open communication will be essential in the creation of great feelings and absolutely fabulous moments with someone....otherwise you'll simply end up settling for the latter. There are no guarentees in life about anything....and time simply doesn't wait for anyone either. If you want great satisfaction and wonderfulness in your life?....ask for it darlings....otherwise you'll get what you get unsatisfactorily. It'll be your own fault if you end up disapppointed with a man otherwise....are we cool ladies?
Same thing goes for us guys too.....so it's seriously not a gendor specific problem. Choose your words and behaviors carefully....cause the alternatives can sometimes turn into disasters. Disasters of your own makings and doings of course. Be choosy and pick wisely. There are a few really good men left out here standing around wondering when their own ships are coming in. Who's ship do you wanna be on reasonably?......Hmmmmm....!!!
2007-07-17 02:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many girls see a "nice" guy as being the "weak" guy or the ******. The truth more often is that that guy is strong in loyalty, sacrifice, and support. So the girl goes for the strong-looking guy and gets the opposite. It's no big surprise to me who, as a guy, sees it all the time but the girls are soooo shocked. It's really sad.
2007-07-17 01:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by One Voice In The Day Rings True 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes 2 to bop. you may desire to take some accountability in figuring out on women people who act that way. Then it might desire to have something to do with the way you habit your self in relationships besides. in case you smother women people who has a tendency to lead them to turn faraway from you. there is a thank you to be attentive to females individuals with out removing their respiratory area. you may desire to discover out what that's which you're doing that makes you suspect what you suspect, and continually undergo in strategies that it takes 2. no longer all women individuals are undesirable and a few individuals like a guy to manage us properly. in actuality countless us do. have confidence. ';-)
2016-10-04 00:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN UP SON....dont complain about the good things in life...complain about the bad things like misery and poverty...not some tiny meaningless almost non-existent problem
2007-07-17 02:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, I guess I saw through it before I ever became involved with a girl like that. Sorry I have never ended up with the type of girl you describe.
2007-07-17 01:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by The Eight Ball 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, i can agree with you to some degree, ic an't stand a women whos a hipocrit or sets double standards. I hate it if they say, ok, you can't have any friends who are girls, then they go and get like, 5 guy friends. Also when they're all like, you can't drink, you might do stupid stuff, then they ask if they can! -sigh- i dunno, i can feel how u feel, but it's nigh impossible to find a girl who will want things equal. at least in my experience(no offence ladies).
2007-07-17 01:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by PlayaX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so serious with girls. just be like playboys with them. You should love only with your life after marriage.
2007-07-17 01:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by rockylike007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have fun with women.. don't ever try to solve their problems.. pretend your listening and think about playing world of warcraft or something. remember its all about getting sex.. anything else is a waste of your time
2007-07-17 01:53:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋