Ok, last friday me and this older guy were emailing each other, it was getting a little hot, but now we havent emailed since, and i want to send him one. This is the last thing he sent me.
"Ok, i’ll get it cleared ready to rip your clothes off and snog the face of ya!!!!!"
He is older than me, so it cant sound childish.
Can you help me?
2007-07-17 01:47:38 · 17 answers · asked by Jelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
chaskfrazier - He isn’t a stranger, I have known him for 5 years, I have liked him from the word go. I just never had the guts to say something to him. Now that he has emailed me, I feel a window has opened, and I don’t want it to shut in my face, and by the way, i'm not a child, he is older by 10 years!
2007-07-17 02:11:13 · update #1
lynn p - We work together, so its a little hard to talk at times - even more so when the boss is about!
2007-07-17 02:13:45 · update #2
Apparently you are childish. If you're not ready for this action, don't get in the game. This guy could be a perv and you're just feeding his addiction. Next thing you know, this guy could be following you all over town or peeping in your bedroom window. Grow up and STOP FLIRTING with older STRANGERS online.
2007-07-17 01:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you know this guy? On the net you can get carried away.
You have to ask yourself a number of questions based on the fact that you dont know him personally. You unfortunately dont say hold old you are or he is
1. What has this guy told me about himself
2. Can you actually verify what he has told you
3. Were the emails just on Friday night
4. Have you thought that this guy may in fact be in a relationship
It sounds to me if it is a case of mild flirting which has gone one step too far ... i could imagine that this guy may have had a drink or two and in fact in a relationship ......
What i would do in your situation is send a very pleasent email something along the lines of
Hi hope your okay love to hear from you again
Leave it very much in his court and dont go into graphic details on this occassion of your emails on friday night as you dont really no what his domestic situation is
Hope this may be of some use but i would tread very carefully
After writing my chapter and verse i find out that you in fact work with the guy .... well find out his current living situation and if hes free go for it .... however if he has got a partner i would think very carefully that your thrills together could be wrecking other peoples lives
2007-07-17 09:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by dee9166 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's difficult where to start isn't it
how about a short message saying something like "hey how ya doin, it's been a while"
? or something along those lines, short and sweet and not pushy? i suggest that you don't leap straight in with sex talk, that might scare him!
good luck
2007-07-17 08:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by Missfit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL.....total Brit.....dontcha jus luv it...
Ok.....you need something cheesy to break the ice....
You mightta snogged the face off me.....but my fingers still work so I thought I'd mail you to see if you wanted to snog any other parts of me....off....
*cringes at the cheesyness*
Mail me and I'll give you something worth it....
2007-07-17 08:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by missceekay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How come you havent heard from him in 4 days??
2007-07-17 09:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sensible Lil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's older than you? How old are you 12. Who the hell says that to anyone. Tell him to learn how to talk properly. Whatever you say it won't sound worse than that. Besides, there's nothing wrong with being young.
2007-07-17 08:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd write back, 'Sorry you got disturbed last time by your wife and kids' when they are out for the day, email me, or if they go away for the weekend, let me know and we'll carry on where we left off!'
2007-07-17 08:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you should tell him how you feel write something back telling him how much u like him?
2007-07-17 09:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. It does not sound like something you should pursue.
2007-07-17 08:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Pea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this is something you will have to figure out on your own.
Hard to advise somebody on how to act ....
2007-07-17 08:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by doruletz1999 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋