What do you do when your heart has been broken?

Question

Why is falling in love easier than fallig out of love, after your heart has been broken?

Answer 1

You cry a lot when your heart has been broken, then after crying you examine your last relationship and learn MEN behaviors!!! Then when you date again (which you will in time) you'll learn from the past, that you don't like a certain behavior in a man, and if a man shows that behavior- then you have the upper hand, and dump him!!

Dating is learning about other people. Love is kind, patient, caring, keeps no record of what is wrong, and never dies, is always there, keeps the faith when the chips are down. Love lasts forever!! Lust is the killer of love!!!

Answer 2

Love isn't always what it seems. Most people mistake infatuation with love. If you want it to last, there has to be LIKE. There are couples that LOVE each other but don't like each other very much. I know it sounds confusing. . .

I've LIVED a pretty decent life so far. LIVED as in been out there, had my heart broken, broken a few hearts. It's part of life. It makes you who you are. Just LEARN from it, and keep going. Love is kind of like jobs. You won't have the same job forever right? If you have a long run for 50 years that's GREAT but nobody goes into it honestly thinking it's gonna be 50 years.

He's out there, you just haven't found him yet.

"nothing last forever, not even steel"- Mr.Crow

Answer 3

I sleep damn well after taking a hot bath. Then, in the morning I run crazy. After have running A LOT, I sit on the bench of the park. I make a list of things I want to achieve this months and this whole year. If get reminded of the same person, I run again...etc. Don't ever let yourself to think over what has happened in the past until you are sure to have forgotten.

Falling in love is easier than healing your heart,
because sugar is so much better than salt.
And because memory lasts more than a person.
Lastly, because we never learned to say goodbye
well than to have loved someone.

Peace! You'll get over soon.

p.s:Just like when you get hurt from accident,
you need to take care of your emotional+mental hurt too.

Answer 4

You should let go of the past. Nobody DESERVES to be hurt but it happens. Being in a relationship is a risk, either he/she is right for you or he/she isn't. I am assuming you are asking this because it happened to you and I am sorry. I guess part of all of us wants to be in love and doesn't want to remeber the hurt from before and thats why it gets easier to fall in love once our hearts have been broken. But theres people who don't want to be in love anymore because of how badly they were hurt. If you are able to move on that easily then it must not have been to bad or you weren't as attached to the person as you may have thought. I guess you can cry if you like. Another thing is how you vent out. I cry but know inside, that it doesn't solve anything. You can try being friends with this person. Or you can scream in a pillow or enjoy being single. Whatever you like. I hope I helped and good luck mending your heart. I wish it were as easy as putting on a band-aid but, its not and its going to happen. heres to hoping you find the one. :)

Answer 5

You just move on and live life to it's fullest. They say it takes half the time you are in a relationship to get over that relationship. So if you have been in a serious committment, expect your heartache to last quite a while. But the best thing you can do is to move on. Meet new people, make new friends. Replace your broken heart with new relationships.

Answer 6

Well exactly as it it sounds you fall a lot quicker then you can pick yourself up. Get rid of anything that reminds you of that person. If your sentimental like me then don't throw it away, but put it out of site. Stay busy, like start a hobbies, exercises, find friends to hang out with. www.meetup.com or www.tribe.net are site where ou can find people in your area for free that have the same interests as you. Take a nice long hot bath and vegge. You may feel like it's the end of the world right now, but you'll get better.

Answer 7

Some people after their heart has been broken will jump into another relationship fast. Why I think it is to fill the void that is there and to erase the pain.

It is easy to fall in love because you are happy and wanting it. To fall out of love is hard because you my still have feelings for them and it is hard to let them go.

Answer 8

Just remeber your heart isnt actually broken its just a stupid saying lol.

Falling in love is fun and exciting, while falling out of love makes you remeber the process of falling in love and knowing you will loose the relationship with that person (its quite sad)!

Answer 9

because love is wished fromalot of people
so ur spirt wish love and u feel that u are right when u put ur heart with someone

but when u lose love u lose ur happy ur funny position in ur live
well not all position but at the first u will wish to die

and after atime u will take on and u may see abetter man


i feel that freind i konw this bad feelings
bestrong ok

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Answer 10

Been there a couple of times, you should Thank that person. Because they showed you things and made you feel thing things that you never knew about. Also they taught you to be cautious to whom you open your heart to next.