Christains and non. Have you ever gone out your way to help people only to get slaped in the face?

Question

Like treated like crap? I have. You go to help someone out of your heart and they throw it back in your face and call you a lier and goodness knows what else. Yes I am peed of now. In time I will get over it, but right now I am very angry. I just want to tell you look out for this little wretch on here who goes by many names mainly Hazir. He claims to be from Iran and now lives in Iraq, and fears that if he goes back to Iraq he will be shot becasue he left Islam(I believe that part) and became a christian. This man is not a christian, so please people all he wants is to get somebody to sponser him so he can come and live in your country. Do not do it. He is a vile person who gets drunk, uses bad language all the time, abuses people etc. Do not help this man. He is detestabel. I tried helping this wretch a few times and it has gone back in my face. So I just want to warn you please be careful who you give your number out to, your e-mail adress ect. There are a lot of decievers out there

who troll around looking to play on peoples emotions. When you help people be very carfull. becasue you will get lied to like I did. Any one on here with similar experiences?

Answer 1

Yes he is disgusting.

You are well rid of him

Ariel

Answer 2

I am a non-christian, I do have a great belief structure and I have tested the law of three. Unfortunately for the people of the world who do believe in a helping hand, it is necessary to be circumspect in giving/helping. I have learned that whatever you give, expect nothing in return. Generally speaking, that is what you will get from that person you gave to. Within the law of three you will learn that what comes back to you three-fold does not always come back from where it went. If it did, or could, there wouldn't have been any reason to help. The law of three return comes from another source, and allows you to receive a larger blessing. When helping someone who is a "user", it is always best to take the lesson learned and not lend a hand to someone who will turn around and scoff you. They already have received their three-fold blessing......

Answer 3

Yes - I'm a Non-Christian who has on several occasions tried to go out of my way to help those who ask/ deny help, it has happened. Sometimes, it was worse than just a slap in the face.
So, I've learned an important lesson - just leave everyone be and let them make as many mistakes as they wish.

Answer 4

Sorry about your bad experience. :(

Yeah, I have had bad experiences. Mine here haven't been as bad as the ones I've had in the real world though. I try to be a kind, generous person. Sometimes I fail, but I do try. And I've had my generosity thrown back in my face SO many times.

Anyway, the best thing for any person to do is to never give their phone number to anyone they talk to online. So far, I've only given my phone number to ONE person that I met on the internet, and he and I talked almost every day for a year before I did so. He lives in India, and we're still very close friends. He wanted me to go to his wedding a year ago, and I've also talked to his wife. I've now known him for almost seven years.

Answer 5

Yes, Leanne, I have reached out a helping hand only to have it chopped off.

Cut him off and focus on the good people in your life.
Try focussing on yourself right now and get even better and just wait to try ahd help people just for now.
BB

Answer 6

Yep. Blessed are the persecuted. Stay blessed.

Answer 7

did you try offering your other cheek?

Answer 8

Thanks for the warning.